Meet Sebastian

Hi, I’m Sebastian. I’m easy going, curious, and have a cheeky side that comes out once you get to know me. I value kindness, honesty and humour, and I try to keep life simple and grounded in those things.

I grew up in Sydney and it’s still home, though travel has shaped a big part of who I am. What started with a camera and some curiosity grew into a career as a photographer that took me across more than forty countries. I see that time as a privilege, not just for the places I saw but for the people I met along the way, the conversations, the laughs, the small moments of trust when someone let me in. Those experiences taught me that connection is what really matters, not just capturing a moment but actually being there for it.

Day to day I try to keep things simple. The bush, the ocean, sport, and mindfulness keep me grounded, reminding me to be present and not rush through the day. That’s when life feels fullest.

What you’ll get from me is someone genuinely engaged. I like when things happen naturally, when the night takes on its own rhythm. We might be laughing and playful one moment and then easing into something deeper the next. I’ll usually be the first to laugh at myself. I enjoy a bit of mischief and don’t take things too seriously. The best times are when we’re present and relaxed, letting things flow and seeing where they go.

My work as a photographer has taught me a lot about people. It’s not just about taking a photo, it’s about making sure someone feels safe, comfortable and at ease. I get a kick out of meeting strangers and finding common ground, and I bring that same lightness and calm to any first encounter.

For me intimacy isn’t just about being close, it’s about attention and presence. I notice the small shifts, the spark in a conversation, the way someone softens when they feel at ease. I like creating that space where things feel unhurried and easy, where we can forget about the outside world and it’s just about what’s happening between us. Sometimes that shows up in laughter, sometimes in quiet, sometimes in closeness and touch.

What I want most is for the time we share to leave us both feeling lighter and more alive, not just remembering what happened but remembering how it felt, a mix of connection, playfulness and intimacy that stays with both of us beyond our time together.

Tattoo Description

As a creative I guess it’s no surprise I’ve got a few tattoos, it almost feels like part of the job description. I have six in total, all easy to cover with clothes. They’re mostly clean and more artistic than bold. Two medium pieces on my thigh, two smaller designs on my upper arms and two small designs on my legs.