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The Heart of Her Confidant

Her Confidant was never meant to be just another companionship agency.

It was born from an unmet need. Intelligent, accomplished women confiding that the options available to explore intimacy on their terms felt impersonal, transactional and disconnected from their emotional reality.

Anna Grosman listened.

With over 15 years of experience in the intimacy space, including co-founding the globally successful Aphrodisiac Male Escorts, Anna understood the industry from the inside. She also recognised its limitations.

So she created something different.

A female-led sanctuary designed around women’s nervous systems. Around consent. Around emotional intelligence. Around the belief that the erotic must feel safe before it ever feels electric.

With Her Confidant, Anna is on a global mission to redefine self-care and transform the narrative around women’s pleasure.
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This experience changed me forever. I now have my confidence back and feel empowered to go after what I want. I will always be grateful to Anna for providing this beautiful service for women.
—B. after an experience with Her Confidant
Dear Reader,
If you’re here, something in you is curious.
Maybe nervous. Maybe excited. Maybe both.

For too long, women have been taught to shrink their needs.
To be wanted, but not to want.
To give, but not to receive.
To be quiet.

I built Her Confidant because I was done with the double standards.
And I launched it on Valentine’s Day 2024 as a gift to all women.

This is a space where female desire is celebrated.
Where you don’t need to explain yourself.
Where you don’t need permission.

You are allowed to explore intimacy.
On your terms.
At your pace.
Safely.

Women have never had a space like this before.

Welcome to choosing yourself.
Welcome to the Pleasure Revolution.

I’m honoured to be part of your journey.
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Anna was full of kindness, compassion, and encouragement that my sexuality and pleasure were something I absolutely deserve.
Her Confidant brought me back to life. If any woman is doubting whether to book with Her Confidant, just take the leap. It’s so worth it.
Thank you so much for setting up an agency that gives women a safe place to explore themselves. I have never enjoyed a night like it before.
Anna checked in with me and made the whole process feel easy, safe, and supported from start to finish.
Her Confidant was such an easy choice, a woman was talking to me and knew what I wanted as a woman.
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Intentional intimacy is the ultimate form of self-care. Every woman deserves to experience it at least once in her life.
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I’m not interested in sensationalising sex or intimacy. Her Confidant is here to empower women and celebrate sexuality and sensuality. There’s a real need in society for touch and connection. That’s why I’m so excited about Her Confidant. It’s more than a business. It’s a mission to change lives and put women back in control when it comes to meeting their sensual and intellectual needs. I’m here to flip the script!

A woman who consciously chooses her pleasure is a woman who is no longer negotiating for crumbs.

We have normalised women spending money on handbags, holidays, skincare, education. But when a woman chooses to invest in intimacy, the discomfort surfaces.

Female desire has historically been managed, monitored, or moralised. A woman wanting pleasure on her own terms disrupts a very old narrative that intimacy must be earned through commitment, sacrifice, or service.

Men have accessed intimacy without it defining their character. When women do the same, it becomes a cultural conversation.

The controversy is not about the act. It is about autonomy. And autonomy in women still unsettles certain people. It’s time for women to put their desires first without judgement or shame. And by establishing Her Confidant, an elevated companionship service for women, I believe we’re one step closer to removing the stigma.

While women’s sensual emancipation has come a long way, the availability of sophisticated, women-owned male companion services leaves a lot to be desired.

I’ve done my research, I’ve spent weeks looking for agencies that offer women a genuine, elegant approach to sensual and intellectual satisfaction. The results are disappointing at best and obscene at worst. Her Confidant stands out because we offer a personalised service for every woman and every need. I actually see it as sacred work.

We understand that many women are not starting from a blank slate. Some are coming from betrayal, neglect, long sexless marriages, divorce, illness, grief, or outright trauma. Their nervous systems are protective for a reason.

Trauma-aware means we never assume readiness. It means pacing is client-led. It means consent is ongoing, not implied. It means we read micro-cues, shifts in breath, body language, hesitation.

It means a Companion’s role is not to push an agenda but to create enough safety that a woman can soften at her own speed.

It also means myself and the team have undergone trauma-informed care certifications and we collaborate with sexologists and therapists when appropriate.

Safety is not an add-on feature. It is the foundation.

I am working toward a world where women do not have to justify their desires. Where intimacy is recognised as part of wellbeing.

Where a woman can say, “I chose this experience for myself,” and it is met with the same neutrality as booking a retreat, hiring a personal trainer or a therapist.

I want to dismantle the idea that women must earn pleasure through partnership or suffer in silence if they do not have one.

I am not trying to make intimacy transactional, but intentional.

If Her Confidant contributes even a small part to normalising female agency in this space, then we are already shifting culture.

We are leading a Pleasure Revolution, one experience at a time.

I don’t rush the process of selecting the gentlemen for our beautiful clients. I’m so thrilled with the calibre of male companions in our books. Each one is dedicated to pleasing women in every way imaginable from erotic massages to stimulating conversations.

They are physically and emotionally intelligent as confidants and lovers. Charismatic, handsome, educated and worldly, they know instinctively how to put a woman at ease and encourage her to open up. But more than anything, they genuinely care and love being in female company. True gentlemen in every regard.

Women have never been so independent or in control of their lives both financially and emotionally. But so many are missing out on connection and touch and really, the time it takes to put ourselves first.

The cliche of the woman calling a companionship service because she’s ‘desperate for sex’ is just that – an outdated notion that never really rang true. Her Confidant’s clients are sophisticated, intelligent women who are often too busy, too caught up in a daily routine to consider the sensual side of life.

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Most Melbourne travel guides read like a school excursion. Trams, footy, dumplings, repeat. Grand if you’ve never been, but if you’re a grown woman with taste and a bit of disposable income, you’d be forgiven for asking where the actual fun is hiding…Here’s a curated list of fun things to do in Melbourne for women who travel well, eat well, fuck well, and aren’t fussed about pretending otherwise.

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Why Ladies First Rattled Men (and what Her Confidant is doing differently)

Netflix’s Ladies First is clumsy, sometimes cringe, and accidentally reveals something profound about gender, power, and what women actually experience. When you stack every small dismissal, every unwanted touch, every interruption into one day on one body, it stops looking like comedy. It looks like a documentary. Critics called it exaggerated. But are we really overreacting, or have we just never seen it all in one frame before?

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Laura Lee

Sexologist & Psychologist
Laura is a psychologist and sexologist based in Melbourne, with over 17 years of experience guiding people back to themselves. As Director of Blue Space Psychology, she works at the crossroads of sex, relationships, and mental health, blending clinical depth with a warm, human touch.

Accredited and trauma-informed, Laura supports women, couples, and even other health professionals through therapy, workshops, and online education. With a postgraduate qualification in sexology, she is fiercely passionate about dismantling shame and creating spaces where people can embrace their desires and explore sensuality as a source of healing and freedom.
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