Her Confidant: male escorts for women and couples across Australia.

Safety is our foundation. As a female-led agency, we vet our Companions with rigorous standards that go far beyond the physical, prioritising emotional intelligence, integrity, and a deep respect for women.

Every Companion completes Phoenix Australia’s trauma-informed care course, paid for by Her Confidant, after his first three successful bookings, and Anna remains your constant point of contact to ensure your experience feels exactly as intended. Here, you are in a protected, discreet space that fiercely guards your professional and private life.

We welcome you to learn more from the perspective of a male companion on our blog.

Her Confidant is built around intentional, curated intimacy. Every Companion goes through a rigorous vetting process, and every booking is approached with care, consent and emotional intelligence at the centre. We keep our books small and match carefully, so every experience is shaped around a woman who genuinely comes first.

Paid companionship for women is not new, though it has rarely been talked about openly. Our researched look at the history of male escorts traces how the industry reached this point.

Each experience is shaped around you. There is no fixed script, because every woman arrives with different intentions, comfort levels, and desires.

Across Australia, women book professional male companionship with Her Confidant for many reasons. It might be an engaging dinner conversation, a sophisticated event date, a relaxing weekend escape, or simply time spent with someone fully present and emotionally attuned. The focus is always on discretion, safety, and creating a space where you feel comfortable choosing the pace and direction.

Her Confidant collaborates with trusted partners across Australia to help shape your experience, including body and mind professionals, sex therapists and expert boudoir photographers. Each partnership is carefully selected to support confidence, comfort, and a deeply personalised journey.

That’s completely fine. Her Confidant is for women and couples who are thoughtful, curious, and ready to prioritise themselves, even if they feel nervous or unsure. Most of you are stepping into this world for the first time. So, the process is designed to help you discover what you want to experience gently, without pressure or expectation. We move entirely at your pace, starting with a private conversation with Her Confidant founder, Anna. Think of her as your wingwoman. She is there to offer reassurance, answer any questions you might have, and stay close until you feel ready to take the next step with our male escorts for women. If intimacy feels like too much for now, The Prelude offers two hours of social companionship with no expectation of intimacy. From experience, though, most women find the Her Confidant Experience the better first step: it begins with an hour of social connection, so there is time to settle in before anything more.

You can also take our guided quiz to understand what experience will meet your needs.

Absolutely. As a high-class escort agency, we support women who want guidance, and we also welcome those who are already clear in their desires and ready to move forward. If you want to proceed, you can learn how the booking process works or just begin your enquiry to confirm availability and begin planning your experience.

Every Her Confidant enquiry is handled with efficiency, discretion, and professionalism. No exhausting dating apps, no uncertainty, just carefully curated companionship and a confidential conversation with Anna to ensure everything feels aligned from the start.

Yes. Her Confidant specialises in curated experiences for both individual women and couples. Whether you are looking to explore a new dynamic together or reignite the spark, we provide emotionally intelligent male escorts for couples who are skilled at navigating the nuances of shared intimacy.

If you are considering it together, our guide to booking an escort for couples walks through how the conversation and the experience usually unfold.

Yes. Her Confidant Companions are based in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, the Gold Coast and Perth, and travel with a little notice to Adelaide, Canberra, Hobart, Geelong, Newcastle, Wollongong, the Sunshine Coast and Toowoomba. What we offer differs by state, so Anna will confirm the options for your city when you enquire.


If you’re curious to read about other women's experiences, explore our full testimonials page.

The rules differ by state, and our guide to whether male escorts are legal in Australia explains each one.

It depends on where you are. New South Wales, Victoria, Queensland and the Northern Territory have decriminalised sex work, the ACT uses a registration model, and Western Australia, South Australia and Tasmania each have their own, stricter rules. Social companionship is legal everywhere, and Anna will gently talk you through what is possible in your city.

Because the detail matters and it changes depending on where you are, we have written a full guide answering are male escorts legal in Australia state by state. We have also explained why prostitution is legal in Australia and what decriminalisation changed for women.

Experiences start at $1,000 for The Prelude, two hours of social companionship. A 90-minute Indulgence is $1,700, our signature Her Confidant Experience starts at $1,950 for three hours, and The Sleepover is $5,500 for 14 hours. Accommodation and dining are paid separately. Every price is listed on our Experiences page.

Her Confidant was founded by Anna Grosman, who launched it on Valentine’s Day 2024 after years in the intimacy industry, including co-founding Aphrodisiac Male Escorts. Anna speaks with every woman personally before a booking and matches her with a Companion. You can read her story and her approach to safety on our Founder page.