What Our Satisfied Clients Are Saying
Since disrupting the industry, we have received nothing but encouraging words. We are proud and honoured to support the intimate journeys of so many incredible women.
Many approach us nervously, uncertain of what to expect, but with a deep desire to reconnect with a part of themselves they had long forgotten or neglected.
Witnessing such immediate and powerful transformations reaffirms the importance of intimacy and touch as truly healing tools that should be available to all women at any stage of their life.
Your testimonials are invaluable, helping us continually improve our services and ensure we make a positive impact on your lives. We are beyond humbled by our gorgeous clients' trust in Her Confidant with their open hearts. We promise to always maintain the highest standards and to provide the best possible service in the industry.
Here are some of the many love letters you have shared with us after amazing dates with our companions.
Maybe, you need to hear this…
Maybe this is for you. Maybe it’s for me, a mere breadcrumb trail to remind myself how I got here.
Either way, maybe you see me inside yourself.
Maybe my story is the same as yours—a life of self-sacrifice that led to self-abandonment, that led to the ultimate betrayal: the betrayal of self. Over-giving, under-receiving. That’s been my narrative. I poured out everything, leaving my cup empty, convinced that love could be sustained through sheer effort. But in the end, I was stripped bare.
After the final unravelling of my marriage, I stood in the wreckage and asked myself: How did I get here? Despite my relentless attempts to hold onto love, it was further away.
In the depths of my hurt, I made a decision—not to run, not to numb, not to bypass. But to dive in. To understand.
So I did the work. God, I did the work.
I unearthed the roots of my wounds. I traced the patterns, the echoes of my past, the unconscious agreements I made with pain. I dissected my reflections, studied my suffering like scripture, and emerged illuminated—brilliant in self-awareness, wise beyond what I thought was possible.
Now, I was determined to rewrite my love story with myself and then with others.
But here’s the part they don’t tell you: intellectual and emotional clarity alone is not enough. I had found self-love, but I had lost desire. I had become fluent in the language of my mind but paralysed in my body.
I longed to step into my fullest expression, but the vulnerability it required felt terrifying. The idea of exposing my body, my sensuality—of surrendering to the physical—left me frozen. I wanted to feel again, to awaken, but the modern landscape of dating felt like a war zone. The horror stories of friends and acquaintances echoed in my mind. I was afraid. Afraid of re-traumatisation. Afraid of undoing all my healing by placing myself in the hands of someone who couldn’t consciously hold me. I needed safety. A container of support. A chance to fall apart if I needed to, knowing I would still be held in a positive regard. A place where the pressure was off to provide for another, someone who could provide for me in this very instance.
Like a whisper from the universe, Her Confidant appeared on my feed.
A simple post. An offering.
Pleasure, kindness and care, at my own pace. I bravely took the call to action.
I won’t tantalise you with situational details—some things are best left to be felt rather than explained.
But to the woman who sees herself in my story, I will tell you this:
The experience with my companion – Hudson – led me back to my feminine.
No longer was I a woman who had to hold herself back from desire. I had spent years mastering the art of emotional self-sufficiency, of becoming whole on my own. But I had forgotten the sacred act of receiving. And there, in a space of kindness, care, and respect, I remembered and needed.
Safety wrapped itself around me, soaked in my vulnerability, and I was seen. Desired. Awakened. The missing piece of my journey.
I had feared that stepping back into the physical world of intimacy could break me. Instead, it set me free. I saw my own beauty, my own power, reflected back at me. I claimed what had always been mine: my birthright to experience physical pleasure on my terms.
The result far exceeded the encounter itself. It was a homecoming. Joyous, pleasure driven.
To the gentleman who deliciously held space for me, Hudson—with care, patience, and a genuine interest in me—I could never put a price on what you gave.
And to Anna, for seeing the unspoken need, for creating a sanctuary where I could reclaim my erotic, embodied self—I owe you a lifetime of gratitude.
To the woman reading this, feeling the ache of recognition and pleasure in her bones—maybe this is for you. Maybe it’s time.
Take it.
I promise, on the other side of fear, there is freedom.
I almost want to give this testimonial the title of “Self-inflicted Missed Opportunity,” as it seems the most appropriate summary of my overnight experience with James.
Let me explain. I grew up in a Christian household, not necessarily strict, I did not feel restricted in any way, there being an expectation of certain abstinence and waiting, which for those that know, it was out of a feeling of faith that my best interests were being held in the highest regard. I do not regret my upbringing, I recognise that it is foreign to the general public, that those who do not know what it feels like to be supported, encouraged and uplifted by family and friends of a similar mindset, it can be hard to reason out why I waited so long.
Generally, the way I was brought up was to wait, that there was a plan in place outside of my own perception.
So I did, for years.
I put myself out to opportunities in my community, spent my late teens and early 20s garnering friendships and connection with the boys and men around me.
Now due to my body type, personality or other reasons not ever shared with me, I was rejected, placed aside for others. I spent 11 years watching those around me pair off, marry young, start families, essentially be happy in a life I yearned for myself, a life and goal I was raised to want to desire, to have as my ideal, I held onto my faith that eventually, eventually it would be my turn, until I selfishly couldn’t anymore.
My connection to my previous community slipped away slowly. I stopped talking, engaging with my family of faith I grew up with, my friends of a solid decade through my two university degrees; as I was not able to explain to them why, without looking selfish, in a faith crisis or lacking fortitude.
I moved back to my hometown to support my ageing parents, to a job in a small hospital. I missed my old life, the people I had spent so much time with, I missed the feeling of connection to something higher, but my heart could not take more advice of waiting, faith and hope for a future that was acknowledged by many as something that may not happen.
I stopped looking around me for that connection, stopped allowing myself the opportunity for those around me to see underneath the hard shell of my armour, my wall I had placed around my heart and mind as a protection mechanism.
What this means is I am a 36-year-old woman who has never dated, never was encouraged to share a physical connection with a man, was essentially a virgin in all regards. Initially self-imposed by a hope for a future denied, then later a deep fear of rejection of my still overweight body, a fear of derision that I was so inexperienced in my late twenties and thirties. It became easier to be sad and mourn that part of my sexuality, to lock it away and place even more barriers around that part of myself, than risk the potential for further rejection.
So I existed in a bubble of self-exploration only; seeking pleasure through fantasy books, smut, erotic fan fiction, and self-play with fingers and toys.
What was the breaking point you ask, the reason I reached out to HC and Anna? Well, my job of the last 7 years, the place I had made my focus, the place I spent my energy, dedicated my time—stopped respecting my time, my experience, my loyalty. Due to circumstances that were well within their control, but made to seem not, I was asked to overextend myself to place more of myself into the job I was coming to resent, that was causing burnout and stress beyond what I could handle.
It happened once with promises of no repeat, better staffing, better provision. I went on a holiday away for two weeks straight after, on return I found out it was going to happen again.
At a loss for control, I reasoned that there was one area I could change, and that was how I was experiencing my own sexual health, sensuality and experience of my own body.
So the next day after a meeting with management where I discovered the planned repeat I reached out to Anna, this is where the story takes a turn.
Due to above established lack of experience, I had no history or practice with how to express these feelings, wants, desires verbally. Anna did her best, suggested at the time it may take a few sessions, a few appointments, my initial reaction to that was fear of financial burden; I reasoned out I could still experience what I wanted to experience in a single overnight booking, silly me.
So after booking a month in advance, part of a previously organised adventure to Melbourne, I met with James. Handsome, worldly, intelligent, flirty, intuitive, attentive. These I found in the man in front of me, overwhelming but very needed.
My night with James had me feeling valued, worthy of attention and pleasure. As someone who had previously denied myself the experience of sharing myself with another person I was obviously apprehensive about taking that initial step, nervous that my large fuller-figured body would not be desirable, despite reassurances from Anna via her varied social media posts, which I had watched, I still held that fear; but found in deed that was not the case. James set me up for the greatest success, his reassuring presence instantly put me at ease.
I could feel myself relaxing into his company, ready conversation and active engagement during the social dinner start to our night. It was on our return to the hotel room where my walled-off heart came forward, it tried its best to express itself, to make my privately cultivated desires known, but I struggled expressing them. Note I had minimal thoughts of adequacy and those I did have were able to be dismissed quickly with the patience and reassurance demonstrated by James. His readiness and willingness for pleasure to be given extremely evident, free exploration was highly encouraged.
Did I allow myself to feel how my body should? Yes, there is definitely a difference between exploration of self vs letting someone else bring it out of you… repeatedly.
This is where my title circles back around. I know that I did not allow my heart and mind to sync—outside stressors and inexperience in expression of desire, fantasy, want were blockages to allowing me to fully allow myself to let go and allow James the freedom to help me. That wall was stronger than I thought it to be, my misunderstanding that a single experience would be able to overcome it. Makes sense because it has been building and fortifying for close to 18 years.
That wall has definitely got a crack in it now, and a lot of feelings are now flooding out, and dealing with those has been… enlightening, potentially life-changing.
What this means is, as mentioned by Anna all those weeks ago on our initial conversation, I’m going to likely need more time and allow myself more opportunities. Some self-healing and reorganisation of priorities first though.
Thank you James for my night—truly, you’re a gorgeous gem, I regret not letting you fully shine, but the flashes and twinkles I let through are staying with me, they’re mine now.
Thank you Anna and Her Confidant for creating and being a company that is allowing women to feel empowered and explore desire. My first steps were awesome, enlightening and explosive. I look forward to the next adventure.
Two years ago, my loving husband uttered the words “Maybe you could see a male escort!” I was shocked, I could not understand what he was meaning…. The conversation finished very quickly…. I am happily married, why would I need that.
Yes, I was still in a very loving relationship, married for over 30 years, but my husband due to ill health had not been able to fully fulfil me intimately for a long time. Our libidos are on very, very different levels. We are still intimate, with a lot of understanding and sometimes, frustration.
Well two years later, a lot of research and one very understanding husband led me to Her Confidant and the amazing and understanding Anna. I brought up the subject of a male escort with my husband again, we were open and honest with each other, our wants and in my case needs from the arrangement. My husband understood that I needed more for my sexual health than he was able to give me. Researching into women’s health and the difference in needs as woman age compared to men reaffirmed that for my own mental, sexual and overall health needed an intervention. Research told me that for my own health, intercourse can reduce heart disease, increase metabolism and lower blood pressure. I still had doubts but decided to at least make a call.
So, with that in came Anna, understanding, empathetic and encouraging, she understood that we wanted the whole journey to keep private, between us. Anna listened to my story, worked out who I was and organised for me to meet Sam. We met for dinner and then continued on to the hotel.
Spending time with Sam, I must say, it was an experience I won’t soon forget. From the moment we met, he made me feel comfortable, respected, and at ease. He is incredibly attentive, engaging, and a great conversationalist, which made the time we spent together both enjoyable and meaningful.
Not only was he professional, but he also exuded warmth and charm, ensuring that I felt valued throughout our time together. His presence is calming yet exciting, and I truly appreciated his ability to tailor the experience to suit my needs, making me feel like the centre of attention.
Highlights of the night, meeting Sam and having great conversation, feeling like we had known each other for a long time. Sam gave me a massage and totally satisfied me in every way. Something that has kept me smiling for days is the calmness of Sam’s touch and the moment he held my hand after…..that memory has kept me smiling for days. And finally, my husband returned, after Sam had left, and asked if I was okay…. And knowing that I was. It was an amazing experience and weekend.
Over the weekend, my husband and I discussed parts, but not all over the date with Sam, and I can honestly say that just when we thought we could not love each other anymore, we know that we do.
If you’re looking for someone who is not only handsome but also intelligent, charismatic, and respectful, I highly recommend Sam, I’ll certainly be looking forward to booking another session with Her Confidant in the future.
‘Hey Jude, don’t let me down.’
It was like a perfect blind date. You know he’s going to be fun, handsome, smart, and safe because Anna has told you all about him.
I don’t resent having my knees up around my shoulders and feet high in the air while I get a xx laser because I know that he will do the same. I know he’ll smell good, taste good and feel good.
I stand near the busy theatre as Jesus Christ Superstar is about to start. People are bustling about and I’m looking for a man in a white t-shirt, leather jacket, gold scarf, jeans, boots, a cheeky smile, and a Jude Law vibe. I see a guy who could be headed to the stage door and into the theatre to perform, but he’s headed to me! He kisses me on the cheek. Swoon.
In my apartment he tells me that his dog nipped him on his way out the door and apologises for the tear in his jeans. He turns and bends over to show me where the rip is and I see how perfectly peachy he is.
Jude and I spend an hour or so talking and laughing and then agree to start kissing and take it from there. There is no pressure or posturing, just a plan for fun and pleasure. Through talking, exploring and being creative he had the idea to recreate a pleasurable experience I told him about that I had years ago. He blindfolded me, which I had never done before. Then I blindfolded him and watched him masturbate while I touched myself and sketched him. And that was just the mid-way part!
Through talking, listening, asking questions, connecting, being open and going with the flow I ended up somewhere amazing that I never could have imagined.
Thank you Anna, and thank you Jude. I can’t wait for my next booking.
I am a 62-year-old woman who has spent my life trying to prove my worth. I believed that if I behaved a certain way, I would be loved and valued by my partner.
If I was successful in business, raised beautiful humans, and met everyone else’s expectations, I would finally feel great about myself. But in doing so, I neglected the most important relationship of all—the one with myself.
After listening to the founder of this business on a podcast, something resonated deeply within me. I realised that for most of my life, I had lost touch with my own sensuality. I no longer felt like a woman in the fullest sense. But stepping into this space, there was no pressure—only respect, acknowledgment, and a feeling of being truly seen.
It felt like healing.
Now, I no longer doubt my worth. I feel like a woman who is worthy of feeling sexy. And the truth is, all women are. No shame, no judgment, no fear, no doubts—just the freedom to embrace ourselves as we are. I am so proud I found the courage to place myself first.
My time with Jude did not disappoint! He’s an incredible flirt, seductive kisser and very sexy sweet talker. Jude is stylish, cultured, charming and playful.
He was genuinely curious about my specific desires and enthusiastic about delivering every one of them (as well as a few unexpected, delightful surprises). He expertly uncovered never-before-touched spots, making me moan into the pillows and melt into the bed with ecstasy.
As a person with intersecting identities, I appreciated his use of inclusive language and open-minded willingness to co-create a safe space for us to explore pleasure without judgment. Jude’s understated self-assurance, cheeky inventiveness and refreshing vulnerability make him a special kind of unique lover.
I’m sure you’ve heard many poignant stories from women sharing how much your service means to them, but we can never fully know each other’s journeys.
I think I told you this, but before I found you, I was actually considering an escort service for a family function. Then one day, I picked up a copy of the Good Weekend and came across the article about you and your friend.
When I was younger, I used to believe there was no such thing as coincidence, and reading your story felt exactly like that—a meaningful coincidence that nudged me forward.
From there, I took a leap and James attended the function. Even though things weren’t 100% smooth at first, I trusted you, took the risk to explore further, and I genuinely feel myself changing as a result. You and James have played an extraordinary part in that journey. I’m learning to accept myself, my body, and the fact that I deserve joyful physical intimacy.
Your kindness, your genuine consideration and support have meant so much, and I truly mean it when I say that working with you and James has been life-changing for me.
With heartfelt gratitude, thank you Anna.
When I had just come of age, I experienced a disaster that would shape the rest of my life. Despite a long period of recovery, my body could never return to its original state.
Twice, I entered serious relationships, only for them to end because of my physical imperfections and my perceived passivity in intimacy. But through this experience, I realized that the problem was never me—it was simply the wrong relationships. He is a wonderful comforter and guide, very gentlemanly. I’ve now come to understand that intimacy can be truly enjoyable and tender rather than indifferent, that I, too, deserve care and appreciation. I believe I can start anew, this time by loving myself more—focusing not on how to please others, but on rebuilding my confidence from within.
Thank you, Anna. This experience has been a great help to me. It will help me make peace with myself, even though I understand that it’s not something that can change in just one day.
After having left a horrible relationship some years ago, I was isolated and suffering terrible anxiety and trusted no one.
I decided to try to start living again and contacted this agency. Anna was extremely supportive and very caring. While I was nervous as hell… Anna was there for me by phone until my companion arrived.
Once Hudson got there, I immediately relaxed. He was intelligent, empathetic… and cute as a button! I’ve never felt so SAFE! I could finally be myself, with my companion easily drawing out my sexual desires.
It would be fair to say that Hudson has probably ruined it for any other man!
Stepping into this experience was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Reaching out to Anna wasn’t easy, but from the moment we spoke, I felt nothing but warmth, support, and encouragement.
She understood my fears, my doubts, and the deep-rooted anxieties I carried about intimacy and self-worth. And she reminded me: baby steps.
Meeting Jack was like walking into a space I didn’t know existed for me. He’s not just attentive; he’s deeply present, kind, and completely without ego. The way he listens, the way he reassures, the way he sees you’ it’s something I’ve never experienced before. And… his biceps didn’t hurt either.
For so long, I thought I had to shrink myself, to be small and accommodating. But Jack has shown me a different way. Through our conversations about control, boundaries, body image, and self-acceptance, I’ve started to unlearn the narratives that kept me stuck. I’ve begun to rediscover my femininity, my confidence, and most importantly, my right to feel good in my own skin.
This journey is far from over, but I finally feel ready to take the next step towards intimacy. And that’s because of the safe, supportive space both Anna and Jack have created.
Anna, your kindness and belief in me from day one have meant more than I can ever express. Thank you for walking me through this, for reminding me I deserve this, and for making it so much easier to say yes to myself.
To any woman hesitating, feeling unsure, just take the first step. Anna will catch you. And trust me, you’ll be so glad you did.
I had the pleasure of connecting with Hudson last night. The word that initially comes to mind is… Layered.
Hudson embodies a gentle strength and has a wonderful sense of who he is and what he is meant to be in this life. This man does not play small but with that said he appears not to be basking in, an egoic state.
To meet someone of that calibre is truly a blessing.
Hudson brings a sense of confidence with an emotional bandwidth that I see could make the most nervous to feel safe, centred and completely at ease.
His calm air of confidence and gentle command allows for a multi-layered intimate experience. He is attuned and responsive. Hudson understands that a wonderful intimate experience requires texture. Softness, strength and masterful skillset.
These are not things that are found in books but rather through a dedication to look, listen and respond to a woman’s body.
Thank you, Hudson, for a lovely evening. I have arrived home safely. And I am liking, following and subscribing.
Thank you Anna for making the process seamless , effortless & most importantly your authentic personal touch.
I wish more couples could feel comfortable enough to speak more openly which would then pave the way for others. The sooner we can remove the judgement & educate by story telling , hopefully we can start shifting the stigma.
We luv your work . Don’t stop, Anna.
What a wonderful evening I spent with Hudson! Intelligent and certainly sexy, Hudson was every bit the gentleman and intuitive lover. It was pure pleasure being in his arms, so sensual.
Thank you Anna and Her Confidant!
Mason is drop dead gorgeous, and exudes equal amounts of beauty on the inside. So down to earth and charismatic, he quickly cast all my inhibitions aside. All of my physical and emotional expectations were exceeded for what was a truly unforgettable experience.
Mason is the epitome of a gentleman. A rare soul and such a genuine human who is so chivalrous and respectful. I’m grateful to have crossed paths with you, and so thankful for such a beautiful and memorable night I’ll always remember.
I had the absolute pleasure of an overnight date with Sebastian. I felt I’d met up with an old friend/lover. Sebastian exudes warmth, confidence, charm, and is genuine in every way.
Conversation was effortless. Sebastian has an ability to hold engaging and meaningful conversations, with a wonderful sense of humour. He was professional and respectful, totally attentive the entire time – I felt very pampered.
Sebastian is an extraordinary lover. He has the innate ability to create a space of trust, passion, and excitement, with a lot of fun in between. His attentiveness and care were evident in every touch. Sebastian is incredibly attractive and sexy, with a velvety, seductive voice – he’s totally adorable.
I can’t recommend Sebastian highly enough. A shared experience with him is something every woman deserves! Being from interstate, I’m looking forward to returning to Melbourne in the future for a second date with Sebastian – he is truly unforgettable!
Deepest gratitude to Anna.
Chapter 10: The Life and Times of an Emerging Butterfly
Had a wonderful evening. A really fun night. The Chinese New Year dinner was absolutely yummy. Went with Jack to an outdoor bar at a hotel after for a couple of hours for a drink and a chat. The time flew by, way too quickly.
My gorgeous Goddess, you were right to suggest discussing intimacy with Jack. He raised various things which hadn’t occurred to me, one of which might be discomfort as it has been 15 years since my equipment was in working order. I hadn’t thought of that. I just assumed it would all work as it used to. But he gave me very helpful advice to follow over the next 2 months to be more prepared for the event – an intimacy booking.
We chatted very comfortably. We discussed goals that people may have particularly when overcoming trauma. In my case my goals are simply to have working equipment again, hopefully for a year or so before I need a walking frame to get around.
I don’t think I have ever chatted so comfortably with a man about intimacy before. A new experience, very comfortable and risque topics discussed with ease.
Thank you Anna. Will be in touch again for my next booking.
Toward the end of the year I decided that I could not go into another year without having had sex. I could not go into another year with ‘him’ being the last person I had sex with or the kind of sex it was. Having experienced stalking and other violence, meeting and trusting men seems impossible to me. So, I asked around and saw the HC website.
At first, I thought that I would start off with something outdoors, safe, or maybe go see a performance or play. But, after speaking with Anna I realised that it was safe, and he would follow my lead.
I’m an artist so I thought a life drawing session would be a good way to be around a naked man in a way that was comfortable for me and take it from there. If I didn’t feel ok, or like I wanted to go any further, I wouldn’t have to, and I would at least have some drawings and studies for new work. He had never done life modelling before, and I had never done this before. It felt like there was no power play or domination, just two people having a creative afternoon.
I thought of it as exposure therapy: it was healing, I feel a bit less afraid and not so on edge around men. It took a long time (more than 15 years) to experience sensuality without shame, judgement or being humiliated. It felt more like the sex life I thought I would have when I was younger, and I realised it’s not too late for me; I was disrupted and interrupted, not ended.
Side effects included the stimulation of a creative flow of finishing old drafts of poems, a short story, new drawings, and a painting underway.
Thank you Anna, and thank you James.
My brain is on fire with fear about meeting a male escort for the first time. I’m nervously sitting alone on the edge of a brown leather couch in a fancy boutique hotel bar waiting for him to arrive. My stomach keeps doing big loopy somersaults. Every part of my body is screaming out for me to leave. What was I thinking?! After all, I’m in my fifties and have been single for over a decade. This is a ridiculous idea!
Anna sends me a text, “Andre is about to walk in the door, have fun!”.
I guess it’s too late to back out now.
Andre magically appears on cue. He confidently approaches me and I stand to greet him. He kisses me on the lips and gives me a big hug. He continues to hold me in a comfortable embrace until I take a deep breath and slightly relax in his arms. I’m completely disarmed by his friendly warmth. I was not expecting that. It’s almost like we’re old friends reuniting after a long time apart, even though we’ve never met before.
He asks permission to sit next to me on the small couch. It’s a close fit and our legs have to touch. It’s not overt but a subtle physical gesture that’s a hint of what’s to come.
I’d told Anna that I prefer deep conversations over small talk. Andre got the assignment. He’s a natural conversationalist. We easily find areas of shared interest to talk about before he gently steers our discussion to more intimate topics. He effortlessly gets me to open up about things I haven’t told anyone in years.
On our way upstairs to the hotel room, my nerves rise up again with a giant wave of intense feelings. I’m normally a pretty confident person but as soon as the door closes behind us and we’re alone in the room, I suddenly struggle to find any words. I’m definitely out of my comfort zone.
Thankfully, I’m in the hands of a professional.
Andre invites me to get out of my head and come back to the present moment. Ironically, I spent the night before writing a list of mantras to prepare myself and “stay present” was at the very top. It’s like he’s reading my mind.
We share a deep kiss and I finally feel like it’s going to be okay. I haven’t completely forgotten what to do! Gradually, I drop my guard and let Andre expertly guide me through this new experience.
I expected the sex to be great (and it’s truly mind-blowing) but I’m surprised by how incredible it is to be caressed, stroked, held and seen. It’s been so long since I’ve been touched, I’d almost forgotten how good it feels. Andre doesn’t rush me. He’s non-judgmental and open. He encourages me to go wherever the feelings take me.
Andre then delivers a masterclass in how to achieve a full-body orgasm. This is what you get when you’re with an expert! All of his energy, attention and formidable skill is focused on my pleasure.
He seems to intuitively know what I need before I can articulate it, even to myself. Or maybe, this is once again his expertise shining through. He helps me feel safe enough to let go of any preconceived notions of what I’m supposed to act like and instead allow myself to honestly embrace the real emotions bubbling up.
I lie languidly on the bed and watch Andre get dressed. I’m still trying to process how I’ve gone from nervously jumping out of my own skin to feeling calm, comfortable and deeply satisfied in just a few hours. I walk him to the door and he says goodbye to a different person than the one he met earlier in the night.
Before my booking, Anna sent Andre a description of what I’d like to experience in our time together. I told her that I was hoping to have an open-minded encounter, intimate connection and some flirty, sexy fun. I also hesitantly admitted to her that this feels like too much to ask for. Anna replied, no, it’s not a lot to ask for! Still, I was sceptical. I shouldn’t have doubted her because Andre gave me everything I’d asked for and more.
Overcoming my fear and calling Anna was one of the best things I’ve ever done. Every step of the way she’s been supportive, empathetic and encouraging. Based on our conversations, she made an informed decision to match me with Andre for my first sexual encounter in nearly a decade. And she wasn’t wrong!
Andre was warm, authentic and very open-minded. He effortlessly created rapport, trust and safety to put me at ease. All of this combined with his down-to-earth confidence, grounded energy, pleasure-giving mastery and beautiful body was quite the impressive package.
I was terrified to start exploring my sexuality again after being single for so long but I’ve only got one regret. And that’s why the fuck didn’t I do it sooner!
Andre shared that one of his personal mottos is he’ll try anything twice. I’ve decided to take his advice and make another booking.
Uncomplicated Desire
I relish the memory in my moments of quiet. His sun-kissed body, lean but not thin, muscular but no gym junkie. A snake tattoo coils tightly around his upper arm, like the strong legs of a woman. His perfect face, a smile plays on his lips. He has a quiet confidence about him, no ego, a gentle disposition, but he is all man.
Jack (not his real name), a sexologist, he tells me. Has dealt with women who have experienced trauma, who’ve never slept with anyone before. I’m instantly at ease, feeling I’m in capable hands.
I was worried I wouldn’t be attracted to him. His face blurred on the website. Just a gorgeous torso as reference. We’ve all had sex with people we don’t like, but there’s got to be an attraction, for me at least.
As soon as he arrives, I can appreciate this magnificent specimen of a man. Like that guy in a bar that you lock eyes with and think “Yep, I’d totally do him.”
His cheeky smile and piercing eyes that are looking at me with curiosity and hunger and desire. Intoxicating.
“I think we should start with a massage,” he says. Finally, the joke we’ve all made a thousand times. I’ve never paid for sex before, and it wasn’t even on my bucket list, but life seems to throw curve balls and sometimes you end up here. I did anyway.
He is gentle and slow and needs no direction from me. His hands are large, and strong. His long fingers up and down my back as I relax into his spell with every movement.
And then it’s on. Like we’re dancing to a song and we both know the moves. Is he going to kiss me? My mind moves to Pretty Woman . . . no kissing. It’s too personal. He kisses me. A long, hard, stunning kiss – like the ones in your youth when you could kiss for hours.
I try to manoeuvre myself on top. He pushes me gently back down. “I’m the one in control,” he says. Who am I to argue with that? I’m not an animal.
Two hours later I watch him dress, slowly buttoning his shirt, discarding the filled condom, hopefully not in my bin.
And now the smile plays on my lips, remembering.
When my ex comes into the divorce money he’ll buy a new Range Rover. I’ll be buying a man. A gift, THE gift that Keeps.On.Giving, with an afterglow that goes far beyond island holiday.
Merry fucking Christmas to me.
As Jack leaves and walks down my dimly lit driveway, he calls out over his shoulder “Make sure to tell all your friends.”
Oh, I very much plan to.
I’m in my mid 30s and I’ve been in a sexless marriage for over 5 years. I don’t remember what it’s like to be touched, to be held gently, to be kissed slowly and deeply. I don’t remember what it’s like to go on a date, what it’s like to have sex and I questioned whether my body still worked. I’ve had to work through years of shame, pain, resentment, questions, feeling neglected, doubt, loneliness and more.
As a mature woman with cerebral palsy, I’ve faced my share of challenges when it comes to feeling confident, sexy, and empowered.
I first met Aaron by accident at an event on the 20th of December. He complimented my costume, and we started talking. I asked him what he does for work, and without hesitation, he explained he’s a male companion and what it involves. My eyes lit up. I was curious about Aaron, and I wanted to try his services because it’s been 20 years since anyone has looked at or flirted with me the way he did. Just meeting him, chatting, and having a drink made my night. It made me feel alive again.
Meeting Aaron changed everything for me. From the moment we met, his attentiveness and genuine care made me feel completely at ease, as if it was just me and him at that event. He created a safe, judgment-free space where I could let go of my insecurities and simply enjoy being in the moment.
I booked Aaron for 2 hours, which turned into 8 hours. For those magical 8 hours, he made me feel like the most beautiful and desirable woman in the world. Aaron has an incredible way of connecting, not just physically but emotionally, which made the experience unforgettable. The only regret I have is how quickly the time passed; it truly flew by. I left feeling more confident and alive than I have in years. Just him lying beside me, with his fingers gliding up and down my arm, chatting endlessly, made it worthwhile.
He will definitely be a regular booking from now on. Thank you, Aaron, for showing me what it feels like to be truly seen and celebrated. And thank you, Her Confidant.
Mason needs to come with a big giant warning, in that he is highly addictive!
One night with this intoxicatingly gorgeous man, will have you going back for seconds, thirds and more. So intuitive and attentive, Mason knows exactly how to satisfy a woman in ways you couldn’t have possibly dreamed of.
A night with Mason is so much more than just mind-blowing sex. He meets you on your level and creates a connection so special, making it a completely transcendent experience. His rare gift will not only tantalise all your senses, but will touch your soul.
Ladies, I urge you to go forth and book Mason in – you are destined for the most passionate experience of your life!
Thank you so much for the excellent service provided by Her Confidant, a safe, friendly service, no expectations, a most enjoyable outing with a true gentleman, a superb attentive, compassionate and very affectionate companion.
Just what one needs. Had a fabulous date with Jack and am looking forward with anticipation to further meetings in the future.
Thank you so much for the excellent service provided by Her Confidant, a safe, friendly service, no expectations, a most enjoyable outing with a true gentleman, a superb attentive, compassionate and very affectionate companion.
Just what one needs. Had a fabulous date with Jack and am looking forward with anticipation to further meetings in the future.
My first conversation with Anna had me feeling I was speaking with an old friend, which carried through every conversation.
Organising my first date was effortless. Anna is warm, caring, professional, genuine, kind; layers of the highest qualities and values a person can have.
My date was a lot of fun, very relaxed, with great conversation, I had a wonderful time and I’m looking forward to my next date. Anna is like a guardian angel.
My heartfelt gratitude to you Anna.
I couldn’t imagine a nicer way to spend a rainy day in Melbourne.
Mason has a subtle charm that allows you to feel relaxed and seen. He exudes a safe, sexy demeanour and ensures he’s on the same page as you from the start. His photos are far from the real deal. Mason is 1000% sexier in the flesh, yet I must admit his personalty is even hotter. I’d say there is a real lack of genuine men out there, Mason certainly dispels this thought. He’s got a brain, and sexual intelligence- which I can only appreciate.
I’m picky and he certainly didn’t disappoint and left me smiling all day.
As a first-time and somewhat nervous client, I was truly impressed by Anna’s caring approach, checking in before, during, and after my booking.
Her commitment to ensuring a fun, safe and positive booking is exceptional. The entire experience was respectful, fulfilling, and exceeded my expectations in every way.
I’ve been smiling long after the evening — a perfect balance of connection, intimacy, and pleasure.
Don’t delay, you won’t regret booking with Her Confidant!
Anna and her team have been a crucial support when I was at a most vulnerable time in my life, after a long-term marriage. They helped me take the first step in bringing me back to myself.
I was lucky enough to spend a lovely evening with the remarkable Sebastian. Sebastian had a easy going nature that put my nerves at rest from the get go and made me feel safe. He has an amazing physical presence that I found incredibly impressive with an emotional strength that was of equal measure.
Sebastian reminded me of the importance of prioritising fun with a hint of cheekiness that I relished. He gave me the chance to explore a new level of confidence and intimacy that was absent in my life.
The process of booking was simple with the wonderful support of Anna Grossman and her team at Her Confidant who were able to cultivate a truly memorable experience with the amazing Sebastian. Thank you!!
Get in contact with Anna and her amazing team today.
It was a lovely night. Dante was great. He is really a very interesting person. I really enjoyed myself. Thanks so much for your care and support, much appreciated. Will look to rebook in the future when I am in Sydney again.
After loosing my husband, I was unsure about pursuing another relationship. Balancing work and family left little time for dating, but, I’m glad I made the decision to engage services through Her Confidant agency.
Anna made me feel comfortable, and I had a wonderful evening with Harrison. It reminded me how much I missed meaningful conversations and the importance of prioritising myself.
Thanks again for making my bday memorable 🙂
One day I asked myself: why am I not having sex anymore? I am in my 60s and it had been 12 years since my last sexual relationship. The only answer I could come up with is that I didn’t have the confidence to be with a man again, I thought it had just been too long. I now know that I had it all wrong.
From the very first second I spoke to Anna she made me feel unafraid and I was able to talk to her confidently knowing that she would be there for me the whole way through. Bo is an amazing, intelligent person who cared about me from the beginning and made our time together so memorable. He made me feel sexy and desired, something I hadn’t felt for a long time. He reminded me of how wonderful sex is and he gave me things that I had never felt before. I still have a smile on my face. I am so glad that I made that phone call, all women deserve such an amazing experience.
Thank you Anna. Thank you Bo.
I was lucky enough to spend a lovely evening with the very handsome and caring Harrison a gorgeous Scotsman who made me feel safe, protected and comfortable despite my many nerves.
Taking a leap of faith with “Her Confidant” was a big step for me and one that was made all the easier with the help and guidance of Anna Grosman. Someone I consider a fearless leader in supporting women’s empowerment and I’m sure her many clients agree.
Harrison saw past my imperfections and supported me in seeing myself in a new light. Something I am trying to continue to achieve in my everyday life. Harrison was able to help me reconnect with a side of myself that I had neglected and for which I am very grateful.
I felt desirable and he gave me a chance to explore a new level of intimacy one step at a time.
If you are feeling unsure please don’t hesitate to contact Anna at Her Confidant – you won’t regret it.
I went through a really tough divorce that left me feeling drained and lost. I knew I needed a reset, but I had no idea where to start. When I reached out to Anna, she was just incredible. I’ve never felt so understood and supported.
I decided to book a Weekend with Sebastian because a few hours just wouldn’t cut it to pull me out of my shell. And wow, what can I say? It was pure magic. After so many years of feeling neglected, Sebastian brought me back to life. He was attentive, caring, sweet, and patient. He made me feel so desired that he actually restored the confidence I thought I’d lost. For the first time in years, I felt truly seen and valued.
Anna, your team is amazing, and I’m so grateful for this experience. If any woman is doubting whether to book with Her Confidant, just take the leap. It’s so worth it.
I’m in my 70s and hadn’t been intimate with anyone for over 10 years since my husband passed. Honestly, I thought that part of my life was over, but something lit up inside of me, and I didn’t know what to do about it. After confiding in a good friend, she suggested Her Confidant. Anna was so reassuring and helped me choose my experience. I went for a Sensual Massage, as sex felt like too much for now. I didn’t know I could still feel this way. Jack made me realise that age really is just a number – I might be 70, but I’m still alive and surprisingly thriving! There aren’t enough words to express my gratitude for giving me this feeling. Anna, you’ve created something truly special, and I’m so thankful for the experience.
You’ll definitely hear from me again!
Wow, what a night! So much more than what I expected. I felt so incredibly at ease, comfortable and respected. Feeling that spark reignite inside of me again. He took me to places I haven’t been for a long time. I felt special, adored and sexy. Just what a single woman craves & desires. Thank you so much Anna for an incredible experience, your guidance & caring nature.
I was in a marriage where my husband didn’t touch me, where for 8 years I hadn’t received touch from my husband. It took a big toll on my self esteem, as well as how I viewed myself as a woman. I was craving touch and feared I wasn’t physically capable any more of having sex.
After a lot of consideration, I decided to access Anna’s services . It took me a lot of courage , but it was a priority for me to feel safe and to know I’m in trusted hands.
I met one of Anna’s men in an agreed hotel. It was an unforgettable, transformative and fun experience for me. It gave me an incredible boost of self confidence. I began to reclaim my sense of womanhood and attractiveness, and started plans to leave my marriage.
I would recommend to any woman (even if not having been in my situation), who craves touch, to access these services. It can re-shape one’s self confidence and sense of desirability. I will never forget that night and what it gave me.
Last week was my birthday. And this year I wanted to do something different for myself. I had many massages before but never dove into the rabbit hole of erotic and Yoni massages. I was nervous about it because I thought it might be too vulnerable for me. But Anna helped me navigate the anxiety that soon became anticipation. It was incredible. Sebastian touched me in ways I’d never experienced before. It felt surprisingly good to indulge in pure pleasure without feeling the need to reciprocate. I left feeling more relaxed, alive and f*cking empowered than I have in ages.
Anna, thank you for curating such an amazing space.
Loveless and sparse, my 22 year married sex life was an endless game of unspoken bickering and rules. I felt I aged well before my time. Inexperienced to begin with, I somehow enabled a self belief that I am unlovable and no reasonable man would want me. Hence there is nothing else is to seek elsewhere.
I am now 49 years old. Since ending my marriage five years ago, I’ve learnt to release my pain of being lonely and abandoned by self and now feel strong, agile and alert I’ve always wanted to be. I own my sexuality and femininity. I couldn’t have achieved this without untangling my many knots via different therapies. And, I couldn’t be a woman that feels the purr without a revelationery session with the most gorgeous man I met then via Anna’s agency – the type I had no confidence to approach in the “wild”.
We first met for about twenty minutes in a cafe to see if I would want to go ahead with a booking. He asked me questions that none of the men in my life were ever keen to learn about me: where do I like to be touched, am I a morning or an evening lover, have I ever achieved a climax by myself or with someone, what are my sex beliefs, what would I feel if I couldn’t climax even with a such experienced lover as him? Could I just play and instead, allow to immerse myself into a fun scenario? Because, he added, he’s not going anywhere- he’s there to play together, with me as my equal. I enjoyed the meeting and decided to proceed with the booking.
My playmate has excelled my expectations because he showed a great tact, attentiveness and care. The compliments I received from him still ring in my ears. I was seen, heard and appreciated. So I played with abandon.
I recommend this experience to any woman who wants a great company and to feel her best self. The emotions I felt during my experience were very real and have made me realise that I was in fact, a tactile, sexual woman and that I can and should have fun. The boost of confidence gifted to me stays with me and has become a treasured memory.
I had a trip booked for a friend and I to explore Rotorua in New Zealand but she had to cancel last minute. I didn’t want to go by myself, and I wanted the company of someone fun, cheeky with good banter and adventurous. My friend jokingly suggested, “Why don’t you book a man to go with you?” At first, I laughed, but the idea stuck. I found Anna through a Google search, and after browsing her website, I knew this was exactly what I needed.
Anna recommended Harrison, a cheeky Scottish guy who loves sports—sold! The Ultimate Pleasure Week with Harrison started as a fun and different experience, but it turned into a journey of rediscovery. I hadn’t realised how much effort I’d been putting into pleasing others. This week was all about me, and though I felt a little guilty at first, Harrison was incredible. He made me feel free to explore places within myself that I hadn’t touched in years. We had such a great time that I’ll always think of him when New Zealand comes up.
Thank you, Anna and Harrison, for one of the best trips of my life!
I hadn’t taken a break in years, constantly caught up with work and life. I decided to try the Weekend experience with James, and it was everything I didn’t know I needed. We booked a nice cabin near the Blue Mountains, we laughed, had meaningful conversations, did some bush walking, and I felt a connection that I hadn’t felt in a long time. Anna, thank you for helping me rediscover my playful, sensual side. And thank you for allowing the space for me to hit pause.
James made me feel like the most important woman in the world. It was only a weekend, but I actually feel like I took 2 weeks off from it all.
Thank you.
It has been a privilege to use this exceptional escort agency.
Bokeem was not only handsome but also so highly intelligent and worldly. He immediately made me feel at ease and comfortable. He was so much more than I had imagined.
Looking forward to my next rendezvous…
I can’t believe I’m sharing this, but this experience was so transformative that I feel it’s the least I can do to thank Anna and Bo.
My husband has been battling prostate cancer, and our intimacy had taken a hit. I tried to suppress my own feelings, not wanting to add to his burden or hurt his self-esteem. But he noticed and eventually suggested we try a Couples booking with Her Confidant. I was hesitant and scared, never imagining myself in this situation. But now, I can confidently say it was one of the best decisions we’ve ever made. Bo was incredibly respectful, compassionate, and focused entirely on us. He guided us through a beautiful experience that helped us rediscover intimacy and brought us closer together.
We’ve found a deeper understanding and appreciation for each other, and for that, I’m so grateful. Thank you, Anna, for making this possible.
I discovered a new level of sexuality, confidence and capacity I hadn’t realised I possessed. The best thing in all of this is understanding that I have so much left to uncover… Particularly as my confidence and sense of self grows.
This is not a happy ever after, but a continuing adventure in sexual discovery and I look forward to exploring further in this safe space.
Since making a booking, what can I say, I am addicted. I have found the service you provide to be of first class and I have recommended your agency to my friends.
Thank you Anna for all your wonderful help.
I had booked Bokeem for a date, after weeks of being nervous and unsure – Anna, I’ll never be able to thank you enough. He was so incredible I felt like indulging in this experience a little longer. So, this time I went for the Ultimate Pleasure Week. A whole week with Bokeem sounded like a dream, and it was even better than I could have ever imagined. I decided to take some time off work and visit Bali. I had been there before, but Oh Boy, it is much better with good company.
Bokeem reminded me what it felt like to be alive, to be desired, and to laugh like I hadn’t in years. We had so much fun but also talked so deeply about life. He is profound, calm and genuinely interested in everyone around him.
Anna, this week was transformative. Thank you for creating this space.
It was a pleasure dealing with your agency. I believe that I have found the best service provider in the escort industry. I have used Her Confidant numerous times, and I have to say that the service has always been exceptional.
Wow!! What can I say! Thank you Anna for making my experience so incredibly amazing and memorable. Should have done this years ago, don’t know what I was afraid of or what I was waiting for?
Thank you, thank you, thank you … Till next time.
My partner and I had been curious about having a threesome with another man but felt completely lost about where to start. We scrolled through apps and websites, but nothing felt right. We wanted it to be about us, without complicating our relationship. When we stumbled upon Her Confidant, it instantly felt like the perfect fit. We booked the Couples Experience with Harrison, who was not only incredibly understanding but also brought a playful, cheeky and sexy vibe to the night. From the moment we met, he put us at ease. The intimacy was amazing – we all genuinely enjoyed – but what really stayed with us was the connection and joy we felt afterward. We walked away feeling closer and more in love than ever.
Thank you, Anna and Harrison, for creating a safe space where we felt truly free to explore and rediscover each other. We’ll meet again!
Anna Grosman
