What Our Satisfied Clients Are Saying
Since disrupting the industry, we have received nothing but encouraging words. We are proud and honoured to support the intimate journeys of so many incredible women.
Many approach us nervously, uncertain of what to expect, but with a deep desire to reconnect with a part of themselves they had long forgotten or neglected.
Witnessing such immediate and powerful transformations reaffirms the importance of intimacy and touch as truly healing tools that should be available to all women at any stage of their life.
Your testimonials are invaluable, helping us continually improve our services and ensure we make a positive impact on your lives. We are beyond humbled by our gorgeous clients' trust in Her Confidant with their open hearts. We promise to always maintain the highest standards and to provide the best possible service in the industry.
Here are some of the many love letters you have shared with us after amazing dates with our companions.
My brain is on fire with fear about meeting a male escort for the first time. I’m nervously sitting alone on the edge of a brown leather couch in a fancy boutique hotel bar waiting for him to arrive. My stomach keeps doing big loopy somersaults. Every part of my body is screaming out for me to leave. What was I thinking?! After all, I’m in my fifties and have been single for over a decade. This is a ridiculous idea!
Anna sends me a text, “Andre is about to walk in the door, have fun!”.
I guess it’s too late to back out now.
Andre magically appears on cue. He confidently approaches me and I stand to greet him. He kisses me on the lips and gives me a big hug. He continues to hold me in a comfortable embrace until I take a deep breath and slightly relax in his arms. I’m completely disarmed by his friendly warmth. I was not expecting that. It’s almost like we’re old friends reuniting after a long time apart, even though we’ve never met before.
He asks permission to sit next to me on the small couch. It’s a close fit and our legs have to touch. It’s not overt but a subtle physical gesture that’s a hint of what’s to come.
I’d told Anna that I prefer deep conversations over small talk. Andre got the assignment. He’s a natural conversationalist. We easily find areas of shared interest to talk about before he gently steers our discussion to more intimate topics. He effortlessly gets me to open up about things I haven’t told anyone in years.
On our way upstairs to the hotel room, my nerves rise up again with a giant wave of intense feelings. I’m normally a pretty confident person but as soon as the door closes behind us and we’re alone in the room, I suddenly struggle to find any words. I’m definitely out of my comfort zone.
Thankfully, I’m in the hands of a professional.
Andre invites me to get out of my head and come back to the present moment. Ironically, I spent the night before writing a list of mantras to prepare myself and “stay present” was at the very top. It’s like he’s reading my mind.
We share a deep kiss and I finally feel like it’s going to be okay. I haven’t completely forgotten what to do! Gradually, I drop my guard and let Andre expertly guide me through this new experience.
I expected the sex to be great (and it’s truly mind-blowing) but I’m surprised by how incredible it is to be caressed, stroked, held and seen. It’s been so long since I’ve been touched, I’d almost forgotten how good it feels. Andre doesn’t rush me. He’s non-judgmental and open. He encourages me to go wherever the feelings take me.
Andre then delivers a masterclass in how to achieve a full-body orgasm. This is what you get when you’re with an expert! All of his energy, attention and formidable skill is focused on my pleasure.
He seems to intuitively know what I need before I can articulate it, even to myself. Or maybe, this is once again his expertise shining through. He helps me feel safe enough to let go of any preconceived notions of what I’m supposed to act like and instead allow myself to honestly embrace the real emotions bubbling up.
I lie languidly on the bed and watch Andre get dressed. I’m still trying to process how I’ve gone from nervously jumping out of my own skin to feeling calm, comfortable and deeply satisfied in just a few hours. I walk him to the door and he says goodbye to a different person than the one he met earlier in the night.
Before my booking, Anna sent Andre a description of what I’d like to experience in our time together. I told her that I was hoping to have an open-minded encounter, intimate connection and some flirty, sexy fun. I also hesitantly admitted to her that this feels like too much to ask for. Anna replied, no, it’s not a lot to ask for! Still, I was sceptical. I shouldn’t have doubted her because Andre gave me everything I’d asked for and more.
Overcoming my fear and calling Anna was one of the best things I’ve ever done. Every step of the way she’s been supportive, empathetic and encouraging. Based on our conversations, she made an informed decision to match me with Andre for my first sexual encounter in nearly a decade. And she wasn’t wrong!
Andre was warm, authentic and very open-minded. He effortlessly created rapport, trust and safety to put me at ease. All of this combined with his down-to-earth confidence, grounded energy, pleasure-giving mastery and beautiful body was quite the impressive package.
I was terrified to start exploring my sexuality again after being single for so long but I’ve only got one regret. And that’s why the fuck didn’t I do it sooner!
Andre shared that one of his personal mottos is he’ll try anything twice. I’ve decided to take his advice and make another booking.
Uncomplicated Desire
I relish the memory in my moments of quiet. His sun-kissed body, lean but not thin, muscular but no gym junkie. A snake tattoo coils tightly around his upper arm, like the strong legs of a woman. His perfect face, a smile plays on his lips. He has a quiet confidence about him, no ego, a gentle disposition, but he is all man.
Jack (not his real name), a sexologist, he tells me. Has dealt with women who have experienced trauma, who’ve never slept with anyone before. I’m instantly at ease, feeling I’m in capable hands.
I was worried I wouldn’t be attracted to him. His face blurred on the website. Just a gorgeous torso as reference. We’ve all had sex with people we don’t like, but there’s got to be an attraction, for me at least.
As soon as he arrives, I can appreciate this magnificent specimen of a man. Like that guy in a bar that you lock eyes with and think “Yep, I’d totally do him.”
His cheeky smile and piercing eyes that are looking at me with curiosity and hunger and desire. Intoxicating.
“I think we should start with a massage,” he says. Finally, the joke we’ve all made a thousand times. I’ve never paid for sex before, and it wasn’t even on my bucket list, but life seems to throw curve balls and sometimes you end up here. I did anyway.
He is gentle and slow and needs no direction from me. His hands are large, and strong. His long fingers up and down my back as I relax into his spell with every movement.
And then it’s on. Like we’re dancing to a song and we both know the moves. Is he going to kiss me? My mind moves to Pretty Woman . . . no kissing. It’s too personal. He kisses me. A long, hard, stunning kiss – like the ones in your youth when you could kiss for hours.
I try to manoeuvre myself on top. He pushes me gently back down. “I’m the one in control,” he says. Who am I to argue with that? I’m not an animal.
Two hours later I watch him dress, slowly buttoning his shirt, discarding the filled condom, hopefully not in my bin.
And now the smile plays on my lips, remembering.
When my ex comes into the divorce money he’ll buy a new Range Rover. I’ll be buying a man. A gift, THE gift that Keeps.On.Giving, with an afterglow that goes far beyond island holiday.
Merry fucking Christmas to me.
As Jack leaves and walks down my dimly lit driveway, he calls out over his shoulder “Make sure to tell all your friends.”
Oh, I very much plan to.
My first conversation with Anna had me feeling I was speaking with an old friend, which carried through every conversation.
Organising my first date was effortless. Anna is warm, caring, professional, genuine, kind; layers of the highest qualities and values a person can have.
My date was a lot of fun, very relaxed, with great conversation, I had a wonderful time and I’m looking forward to my next date. Anna is like a guardian angel.
My heartfelt gratitude to you Anna.
I was lucky enough to spend a lovely evening with the remarkable Sebastian. Sebastian had a easy going nature that put my nerves at rest from the get go and made me feel safe. He has an amazing physical presence that I found incredibly impressive with an emotional strength that was of equal measure.
Sebastian reminded me of the importance of prioritising fun with a hint of cheekiness that I relished. He gave me the chance to explore a new level of confidence and intimacy that was absent in my life.
The process of booking was simple with the wonderful support of Anna Grossman and her team at Her Confidant who were able to cultivate a truly memorable experience with the amazing Sebastian. Thank you!!
Get in contact with Anna and her amazing team today.
After loosing my husband, I was unsure about pursuing another relationship. Balancing work and family left little time for dating, but, I’m glad I made the decision to engage services through Her Confidant agency.
Anna made me feel comfortable, and I had a wonderful evening with Harrison. It reminded me how much I missed meaningful conversations and the importance of prioritising myself.
Thanks again for making my bday memorable 🙂
One day I asked myself: why am I not having sex anymore? I am in my 60s and it had been 12 years since my last sexual relationship. The only answer I could come up with is that I didn’t have the confidence to be with a man again, I thought it had just been too long. I now know that I had it all wrong.
From the very first second I spoke to Anna she made me feel unafraid and I was able to talk to her confidently knowing that she would be there for me the whole way through. Bo is an amazing, intelligent person who cared about me from the beginning and made our time together so memorable. He made me feel sexy and desired, something I hadn’t felt for a long time. He reminded me of how wonderful sex is and he gave me things that I had never felt before. I still have a smile on my face. I am so glad that I made that phone call, all women deserve such an amazing experience.
Thank you Anna. Thank you Bo.
I was lucky enough to spend a lovely evening with the very handsome and caring Harrison a gorgeous Scotsman who made me feel safe, protected and comfortable despite my many nerves.
Taking a leap of faith with “Her Confidant” was a big step for me and one that was made all the easier with the help and guidance of Anna Grosman. Someone I consider a fearless leader in supporting women’s empowerment and I’m sure her many clients agree.
Harrison saw past my imperfections and supported me in seeing myself in a new light. Something I am trying to continue to achieve in my everyday life. Harrison was able to help me reconnect with a side of myself that I had neglected and for which I am very grateful.
I felt desirable and he gave me a chance to explore a new level of intimacy one step at a time.
If you are feeling unsure please don’t hesitate to contact Anna at Her Confidant – you won’t regret it.
I went through a really tough divorce that left me feeling drained and lost. I knew I needed a reset, but I had no idea where to start. When I reached out to Anna, she was just incredible. I’ve never felt so understood and supported.
I decided to book a Weekend with Sebastian because a few hours just wouldn’t cut it to pull me out of my shell. And wow, what can I say? It was pure magic. After so many years of feeling neglected, Sebastian brought me back to life. He was attentive, caring, sweet, and patient. He made me feel so desired that he actually restored the confidence I thought I’d lost. For the first time in years, I felt truly seen and valued.
Anna, your team is amazing, and I’m so grateful for this experience. If any woman is doubting whether to book with Her Confidant, just take the leap. It’s so worth it.
I’m in my 70s and hadn’t been intimate with anyone for over 10 years since my husband passed. Honestly, I thought that part of my life was over, but something lit up inside of me, and I didn’t know what to do about it. After confiding in a good friend, she suggested Her Confidant. Anna was so reassuring and helped me choose my experience. I went for a Sensual Massage, as sex felt like too much for now. I didn’t know I could still feel this way. Jack made me realise that age really is just a number – I might be 70, but I’m still alive and surprisingly thriving! There aren’t enough words to express my gratitude for giving me this feeling. Anna, you’ve created something truly special, and I’m so thankful for the experience.
You’ll definitely hear from me again!
Wow, what a night! So much more than what I expected. I felt so incredibly at ease, comfortable and respected. Feeling that spark reignite inside of me again. He took me to places I haven’t been for a long time. I felt special, adored and sexy. Just what a single woman craves & desires. Thank you so much Anna for an incredible experience, your guidance & caring nature.
I was in a marriage where my husband didn’t touch me, where for 8 years I hadn’t received touch from my husband. It took a big toll on my self esteem, as well as how I viewed myself as a woman. I was craving touch and feared I wasn’t physically capable any more of having sex.
After a lot of consideration, I decided to access Anna’s services . It took me a lot of courage , but it was a priority for me to feel safe and to know I’m in trusted hands.
I met one of Anna’s men in an agreed hotel. It was an unforgettable, transformative and fun experience for me. It gave me an incredible boost of self confidence. I began to reclaim my sense of womanhood and attractiveness, and started plans to leave my marriage.
I would recommend to any woman (even if not having been in my situation), who craves touch, to access these services. It can re-shape one’s self confidence and sense of desirability. I will never forget that night and what it gave me.
Last week was my birthday. And this year I wanted to do something different for myself. I had many massages before but never dove into the rabbit hole of erotic and Yoni massages. I was nervous about it because I thought it might be too vulnerable for me. But Anna helped me navigate the anxiety that soon became anticipation. It was incredible. Sebastian touched me in ways I’d never experienced before. It felt surprisingly good to indulge in pure pleasure without feeling the need to reciprocate. I left feeling more relaxed, alive and f*cking empowered than I have in ages.
Anna, thank you for curating such an amazing space.
Loveless and sparse, my 22 year married sex life was an endless game of unspoken bickering and rules. I felt I aged well before my time. Inexperienced to begin with, I somehow enabled a self belief that I am unlovable and no reasonable man would want me. Hence there is nothing else is to seek elsewhere.
I am now 49 years old. Since ending my marriage five years ago, I’ve learnt to release my pain of being lonely and abandoned by self and now feel strong, agile and alert I’ve always wanted to be. I own my sexuality and femininity. I couldn’t have achieved this without untangling my many knots via different therapies. And, I couldn’t be a woman that feels the purr without a revelationery session with the most gorgeous man I met then via Anna’s agency – the type I had no confidence to approach in the “wild”.
We first met for about twenty minutes in a cafe to see if I would want to go ahead with a booking. He asked me questions that none of the men in my life were ever keen to learn about me: where do I like to be touched, am I a morning or an evening lover, have I ever achieved a climax by myself or with someone, what are my sex beliefs, what would I feel if I couldn’t climax even with a such experienced lover as him? Could I just play and instead, allow to immerse myself into a fun scenario? Because, he added, he’s not going anywhere- he’s there to play together, with me as my equal. I enjoyed the meeting and decided to proceed with the booking.
My playmate has excelled my expectations because he showed a great tact, attentiveness and care. The compliments I received from him still ring in my ears. I was seen, heard and appreciated. So I played with abandon.
I recommend this experience to any woman who wants a great company and to feel her best self. The emotions I felt during my experience were very real and have made me realise that I was in fact, a tactile, sexual woman and that I can and should have fun. The boost of confidence gifted to me stays with me and has become a treasured memory.
I had a trip booked for a friend and I to explore Rotorua in New Zealand but she had to cancel last minute. I didn’t want to go by myself, and I wanted the company of someone fun, cheeky with good banter and adventurous. My friend jokingly suggested, “Why don’t you book a man to go with you?” At first, I laughed, but the idea stuck. I found Anna through a Google search, and after browsing her website, I knew this was exactly what I needed.
Anna recommended Harrison, a cheeky Scottish guy who loves sports—sold! The Ultimate Pleasure Week with Harrison started as a fun and different experience, but it turned into a journey of rediscovery. I hadn’t realised how much effort I’d been putting into pleasing others. This week was all about me, and though I felt a little guilty at first, Harrison was incredible. He made me feel free to explore places within myself that I hadn’t touched in years. We had such a great time that I’ll always think of him when New Zealand comes up.
Thank you, Anna and Harrison, for one of the best trips of my life!
I hadn’t taken a break in years, constantly caught up with work and life. I decided to try the Weekend experience with James, and it was everything I didn’t know I needed. We booked a nice cabin near the Blue Mountains, we laughed, had meaningful conversations, did some bush walking, and I felt a connection that I hadn’t felt in a long time. Anna, thank you for helping me rediscover my playful, sensual side. And thank you for allowing the space for me to hit pause.
James made me feel like the most important woman in the world. It was only a weekend, but I actually feel like I took 2 weeks off from it all.
Thank you.
It has been a privilege to use this exceptional escort agency.
Bokeem was not only handsome but also so highly intelligent and worldly. He immediately made me feel at ease and comfortable. He was so much more than I had imagined.
Looking forward to my next rendezvous…
I can’t believe I’m sharing this, but this experience was so transformative that I feel it’s the least I can do to thank Anna and Bo.
My husband has been battling prostate cancer, and our intimacy had taken a hit. I tried to suppress my own feelings, not wanting to add to his burden or hurt his self-esteem. But he noticed and eventually suggested we try a Couples booking with Her Confidant. I was hesitant and scared, never imagining myself in this situation. But now, I can confidently say it was one of the best decisions we’ve ever made. Bo was incredibly respectful, compassionate, and focused entirely on us. He guided us through a beautiful experience that helped us rediscover intimacy and brought us closer together.
We’ve found a deeper understanding and appreciation for each other, and for that, I’m so grateful. Thank you, Anna, for making this possible.
I discovered a new level of sexuality, confidence and capacity I hadn’t realised I possessed. The best thing in all of this is understanding that I have so much left to uncover… Particularly as my confidence and sense of self grows.
This is not a happy ever after, but a continuing adventure in sexual discovery and I look forward to exploring further in this safe space.
Since making a booking, what can I say, I am addicted. I have found the service you provide to be of first class and I have recommended your agency to my friends.
Thank you Anna for all your wonderful help.
I had booked Bokeem for a date, after weeks of being nervous and unsure – Anna, I’ll never be able to thank you enough. He was so incredible I felt like indulging in this experience a little longer. So, this time I went for the Ultimate Pleasure Week. A whole week with Bokeem sounded like a dream, and it was even better than I could have ever imagined. I decided to take some time off work and visit Bali. I had been there before, but Oh Boy, it is much better with good company.
Bokeem reminded me what it felt like to be alive, to be desired, and to laugh like I hadn’t in years. We had so much fun but also talked so deeply about life. He is profound, calm and genuinely interested in everyone around him.
Anna, this week was transformative. Thank you for creating this space.
It was a pleasure dealing with your agency. I believe that I have found the best service provider in the escort industry. I have used Her Confidant numerous times, and I have to say that the service has always been exceptional.
Wow!! What can I say! Thank you Anna for making my experience so incredibly amazing and memorable. Should have done this years ago, don’t know what I was afraid of or what I was waiting for?
Thank you, thank you, thank you … Till next time.
My partner and I had been curious about having a threesome with another man but felt completely lost about where to start. We scrolled through apps and websites, but nothing felt right. We wanted it to be about us, without complicating our relationship. When we stumbled upon Her Confidant, it instantly felt like the perfect fit. We booked the Couples Experience with Harrison, who was not only incredibly understanding but also brought a playful, cheeky and sexy vibe to the night. From the moment we met, he put us at ease. The intimacy was amazing – we all genuinely enjoyed – but what really stayed with us was the connection and joy we felt afterward. We walked away feeling closer and more in love than ever.
Thank you, Anna and Harrison, for creating a safe space where we felt truly free to explore and rediscover each other. We’ll meet again!
Anna Grosman
