We often speak about what our clients feel, the chemistry, the release, the emotional shift that happens when they finally let go.
But behind every experience is a man who’s just as present. Just as invested. A man who’s chosen this work not by accident, but with intention. Because he wants to be part of something real.
Our companions aren’t performers. They’re not playing a part. They’re attuned, grounded, and emotionally intelligent men who know how to listen with their bodies, their energy, their intuition. They create safety. They read the room. They bring warmth, humour, empathy, and desire, without ever asking you to shrink yourself.
We like to call them Unicorns. And we’re deeply honoured to have crossed paths with them and to welcome them into the our family.
In this series, we invite you into their world. Honest, personal reflections written after real bookings, offering a glimpse into what it means to be trusted, invited in, and part of your journey. The intimacy. The vulnerability. The laughter. The play. The privilege.
For these men, this isn’t just work. It’s art. It’s connection. And they take it fucking seriously.
Vol 1 - Jude & Couple
Working with a couple can be a fun and enlightening experience, and this most recent booking was no exception.
My clients were visiting from interstate, have been married for nearly 30 years, and as they described it, ‘came to a T-junction’ in their marriage that could have been the end of them. Somehow, they landed on professional sex workers as a way to reinvigorate their sex life, and they have not looked back. I was humbled to realise they might have been more experienced in this situation than I was! Some people have a specific wish list or goals; others, like my new friends, are keen to just let it organically evolve and be what it will be.
A three-hour booking means we have a good hour to relax over a drink, get to know each other, find some chemistry, and talk about how we want the next two hours to go—or how we want to feel at the end of our time.
Once we’re all on the same page, it’s time to make our way to the room. I love this part. The courage to put down your drink and say, ‘Let’s go.’ The anticipation and excitement are palpable. I also LOVE an afternoon booking—passing people busily going about their day while smiling at each other knowingly and making awkward small talk with strangers in the lift.
I’m often surprised when I look back at a booking just how much ground we cover in our time together. There were plenty of laughs, some water breaks, check-ins, and moments of intensity, bliss and timelessness.
It’s a real privilege to be welcomed into a couple’s dynamic, and when you finish a session with a laughing, accidental head-bumping three-way hug, you know everyone had a good time! I left them at the door smiling from ear to ear, knowing they would be spending a fun evening glowing, twinkly-eyed, and feeling close to each other. And probably having more fabulous sex (after a quick nap).
I’d really encourage more couples to engage a sex worker. Whether you are wanting to explore a fantasy, unlock some new pleasure, reignite your sexuality, or just jump into the unknown and live a little, I’ve seen firsthand how it can really help. A good professional sex worker will listen, adapt, and communicate well with you. It’s safe, discreet, and uncomplicated.
Relationships can sometimes feel a bit too much like work. It’s big grown-up stuff. But grown-ups need playtime too.
I loved working with this couple, and I hope their story inspires you.
It certainly inspired me.
xx Jude
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