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Everything You Wanted to Know About Booking a Male Companion

FEELING A BIT NERVOUS ABOUT HIRING A MALE COMPANION? THAT'S TOTALLY NORMAL!

We get that you might have questions. Whether you're a seasoned client or just curious about what we offer, we're here to make your experience as smooth and enjoyable as possible - that's what it's all about after all!

If you’re new to booking a male escort and a bit unsure about what’s about to happen, we’ve put together a fantastic guide to calm those jitters: How to Book a Male Escort for Women: The Ultimate Guide for First Timers. It’s packed with tips and advice to help you approach your first booking with confidence and excitement.

 

You can also scroll down to read our answers to the questions we get asked the most.

 

We will support you every step of the way. If you need any further info or you are ready to take the plunge, just head over to our contact page and drop us a message. We’re always happy – and honoured – to chat and ensure we find the perfect companion for your needs.

 

Happy exploring!

Our satisfied clients are are saying…

 

  • It’s such a thrill to be out with a handsome younger / older man on your arm who knows how to treat a woman.
  • My husband / partner is too busy for me.
  • I needed a last minute date for an important work or social function.
  • I don’t have the time to date due to work commitments and I just wanted an uncomplicated evening.
  • I’ve recently ended my relationship and I need to rediscover myself.
  • I simply wanted a new ‘experience’ – something taboo.
  • I’ve booked male escorts before and it’s just so exciting!
  • I was away on business and didn’t want to spend the evening alone.
  • I’ve learnt (the hard way) that online dating doesn’t offer a guarantee of discretion, safety or even that my needs will be met.

 

Do you need a little extra reassurance? Read our client's testimonials and find out how they felt about Her Confidant services.

At Her Confidant, we prioritise privacy and discretion. Our gentlemen's faces are not shown as they often work in professional industries. When you contact us, we'll find a perfect match for your needs. We also encourage a 20 minutes Meet & Greet service to ensure the right chemistry before booking.

We recommend that you ring at least 48 hours prior to arranging an appointment with one of our male escorts .


All of our companions are booked in advance, so we dont want you to be disappointed.

You can read about our Companions and Selection Process here. When you are ready, you may contact us via phone, email or Contact Form to discuss how can we help you fulfil your desires.
 
One of our friendly, knowledgeable female staff will take care of your online enquiry. Anna, Her Confidant's Founder & CEO, will be the reassuring voice over the phone.
 
If you are still unsure about the process, read what our satisfied clients are saying about us.

Confidentiality is a key part of our service. In fact, we pride ourselves on safety and discretion at all times.

 

Our male escorts and staff are asked to sign a confidentiality agreement once they have been selected to join Her Confidant.

Our gentlemen are put through a rigorous selection process. We police check all selected male escorts and they are thoroughly interviewed before joining our agency.

 

We require evidence of all credentials before the companions are selected.

Payment can be made via  PayID and direct deposits into our bank account either online or in person at your local branch. You may also pay in cash if preferred. 

Full payment is required before the booking.
When clients give us their consent, we keep their personal details on paper files for future bookings or enquiries. We do not share your details with other companies.
 
Rest assured, we will treat your data with utmost care. We won't ask any personal details through the website. Your details will be kept in offline records only (old school, forever cool) to prevent any possible breach.
Yes. All of our escorts can travel interstate if required, however all related expenses are to be paid by the client.
Our gentlemen will meet you at your home or a hotel of your choice. If you are travelling to Melbourne and need assistance we can guide you with selections. It is up to the client where the meeting takes place, provided it is a safe and clean environment.
The client pays for the hotel and all expenses incurred during the stay.
Our gentlemen are 100% focussed on safe sex so any sexual services will not take place without the use of condoms. Our escorts have monthly swabs for STIs and blood tests quarterly.
Tips are always appreciated but never expected. This is entirely a personal choice.
No. However if the booking needs to be extended for whatever reason, the client will be charged appropriately.

Her Confidant personally guarantee all clients the following:


  • Complete confidentiality and discretion.
  • Very high standards of personal hygiene and safe sex.
  • Immaculate and appropriate attire for the desired occasion.
  • Attention to every sensual detail - and you throughout your time together.
  • Respect, courtesy and old fashioned charm at all times!

Remember you are in control for the whole time you are together so our gentlemen will do whatever you ask of them as part of a consensual experience.

Yes. Most of our escorts are happy to cater for couples, however they will only provide an intimate service to the female. Our male escorts  are 100% heterosexual.

You may browse our experiences & packages here.

No. Bookings dont have to be sexual if you do not wish them to be. When you select one of our male companions, what you do with your time is completely up to you. A percentage of our clients simply enjoy the company of our elegant gentlemen for social events or a warm cuddle.

Browse our non-sexual experiences here

At Her Confidant  our rates reflect the premium services our gentlemen provide. They also enable our escorts to have fewer bookings so they can provide the high level of attention our clients deserve and expect.

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