Based in: Melbourne
Caters: Women & Couples
Height: 5.10 ft
A Song: I Want a Little Sugar in My Bowl – Nina Simone
A Movie: Wong Kar-wai’s masterpiece In The Mood for Love. The music! The cinematography! The fashion!
A Quote: The way we are living, timorous or bold, will have been our life – Seamus Heaney
A Turn On: Embodied Femininity. A woman in her body. Anything from dancing, laughing or even just reading or walking. But a woman in her body, that beautiful mix of strength and softness. Heaven.
An Inspiration: Art and Nature. I fill my well with a gallery visit, a film, theatre, literature, music or equally a bush walk, ocean swim or day trip.
Fun Fact: I recently bought myself a beautiful digital piano and I’m teaching myself to play. My last lesson was at age 6. It’s been a minute!
Gives: Jude Law vibes
There’s something very powerful about stepping out of the everyday and into a space where you can truly just be. Whether you’re looking for something laid-back or curious to explore a something sensual and a little different, I’m here to create that safe space where you can feel comfortable and free. Free to be yourself; or maybe even a side of you that’s been tucked away for a while.
I’m genuinely curious about people, about what makes you tick, what excites you, and what turns you on. Maybe it’s a great conversation, sharing something fun, or diving into a more intimate moment. I’m here to make sure you feel seen, heard, and totally in control of your whole experience. I’ve got a playful and kinky side, but I also know how to be gentle and respectful when things need to slow down.
Flirting with me feels natural, spontaneous, and easy. I’m pretty good at reading the room and tuning into what you need in the moment. The women I’ve been with often tell me they feel safe and relaxed, able to be their true selves. And I think that’s because I’m here to make sure things never feel forced or awkward.
Above all, I want you to feel free to be yourself, free to laugh, free to explore whatever feels good in the moment.
I can’t wait to meet you
Vol 1. Jude & Couple
Working with a couple can be a fun and enlightening experience, and this most recent booking was no exception.
My clients were visiting from interstate, have been married for nearly 30 years, and as they described it, ‘came to a T-junction’ in their marriage that could have been the end of them. Somehow, they landed on professional sex workers as a way to reinvigorate their sex life, and they have not looked back. I was humbled to realise they might have been more experienced in this situation than I was! Some people have a specific wish list or goals; others, like my new friends, are keen to just let it organically evolve and be what it will be.
A three-hour booking means we have a good hour to relax over a drink, get to know each other, find some chemistry, and talk about how we want the next two hours to go—or how we want to feel at the end of our time. Once we’re all on the same page, it’s time to make our way to the room. I love this part. The courage to put down your drink and say, ‘Let’s go.’ The anticipation and excitement are palpable. I also LOVE an afternoon booking—passing people busily going about their day while smiling at each other knowingly and making awkward small talk with strangers in the lift.
I’m often surprised when I look back at a booking just how much ground we cover in our time together. There were plenty of laughs, some water breaks, check-ins, and moments of intensity, bliss and timelessness. It’s a real privilege to be welcomed into a couple’s dynamic, and when you finish a session with a laughing, accidental head-bumping three-way hug, you know everyone had a good time! I left them at the door smiling from ear to ear, knowing they would be spending a fun evening glowing, twinkly-eyed, and feeling close to each other. And probably having more fabulous sex (after a quick nap).
I’d really encourage more couples to engage a sex worker. Whether you are wanting to explore a fantasy, unlock some new pleasure, reignite your sexuality, or just jump into the unknown and live a little, I’ve seen firsthand how it can really help. A good professional sex worker will listen, adapt, and communicate well with you. It’s safe, discreet, and uncomplicated.
Relationships can sometimes feel a bit too much like work. It’s big grown-up stuff. But grown-ups need playtime too.
I loved working with this couple, and I hope their story inspires you.
It certainly inspired me.
xx Jude
Vol 2. Jude & Non-Binary
This particular client identifies as Queer, Non-Binary, and post-menopause, looking to get their mojo back. They had seen a previous companion at Her Confidant and written an extensive account of their experience—which I had the privilege of reading. (Quite an accomplished writer, it turns out!) Clearly, their first experience had been transformational, and they were ready to step further out with their newfound confidence and learn even more about themselves. After putting my ego aside and reminding myself that I wasn’t here to “measure up” to any previous experience (it sounded like a hard act to follow!), I was excited to meet my new friend and see where we could go together.
I never fail to be impressed—and, frankly, turned on—by the courage of anyone who books time with me. I don’t take for granted the internal and external obstacles some people have to overcome just to pick up the phone in the first place. In this case, many of those hurdles had already been overcome, and they were excited to see what came next. It made for a fun, playful, flirty preliminary drink and chat, full of anticipation. I think we were both ready to move things into a physical space.
Not everyone loves to kiss, but I really do. I find it’s a great way to understand how someone wants to be touched and treated—how ready they are to be vulnerable, how much they want to lead or be led. There’s a lot of information in a kiss, and it’s a great way to start slowly and tune into each other. It’s a conversation. I love how kisses evolve throughout a session—you have to listen, because wants and needs can change. Needless to say, we had a very thorough and in-depth ‘conversation.’
Of course, if kissing isn’t your thing, that’s completely fine too! Everyone has different comfort levels, and I always take the time to find what works best for each person.
It was a very honest, open, and playful booking. We co-created a safe, fun, experimental space to try new things and embark on a sexy, playful journey together. We ended the night eating raspberries, talking film, and sharing podcast recommendations before our time was up.
Yesterday, I got a message from Anna—they would like to see me again. So, who knows where we’ll go this time? I’m looking forward to it.
xx Jude
