“I’ve done the therapy. I’ve read the books. I’ve sat in meditation and journalled for years. I understand why I am the way I am… but I still feel numb. I still can’t feel in my body. I can’t truly enjoy sex.”
This is the silent ache that so many women carry. Not because they are broken, but because so much of modern healing stops at the neck. Therapy helps us understand. Coaching helps us strategise. But our nervous systems, our sensuality, our capacity for intimacy, those live in the body. And if the body has been shut down by grief, trauma, neglect, or simply decades of putting others first, no amount of thinking will bring it back.
This is where women whisper the questions they’re almost afraid to ask:
Is it too late for me?
- Is this it?
Will I ever feel again?
What if my body doesn’t work anymore?
It’s never too late. Even on your last day, the journey is worth it. You deserve pleasure. You deserve to feel at home in your body. But what’s you need is not another mindset hack or talk session. What’s you need is a safe, intelligent, intentional space to be held, touched, desired, and guided back into your body.
That is why we created The Reawakening.
For decades, women’s healing has been dominated by talk-based approaches. And while therapy is life-saving and essential, science shows us that trauma is stored not only in memory but in the nervous system, fascia, muscles, and cellular memory.
When the body remembers violation, neglect, or shame, it doesn’t matter if the mind knows “I’m safe now.” The nervous system is still braced for impact.
This is where somatic healing comes in. Somatic work (literally: body-based work) invites the nervous system to soften, reset, and trust again. Sometimes that happens through movement, breath, or bodywork. And sometimes, for women, it happens through intimacy.
When you are safely held, kissed slowly, touched with reverence, your body releases oxytocin, dopamine, and endorphins — the same chemical cocktail that deepens bonds, reduces stress, and helps trauma integrate. Real intimacy isn’t just about incredible orgasms. It is about re-patterning what it feels like to be seen, safe, and wanted in your skin.
One of our wonderful clients put it best:
“I had found self-love, but I had lost desire. I was fluent in the language of my mind, but paralysed in my body. I longed to awaken, but dating felt like a war zone. I needed safety, a container of support. Like a whisper from the universe, Her Confidant appeared on my feed.”
Somatic healing through intimacy is not indulgence. It is medicine.
Here’s where we need to rewrite the story.
Companionship is not “paying for sex.” At Her Confidant, it is about creating a curated container where women can explore intimacy with men who are vetted not just for looks, but for emotional intelligence, respect, and presence.
Our companions are handpicked for their ability to listen deeply, honour boundaries, and hold space for vulnerability. They are men who understand that intimacy isn’t performance, it’s presence.
When a woman spends time with a Her Confidant Companion, she is not just having an sexual date. She is re-training her nervous system in what safety feels like.
One woman shared:
“Meeting Jack was like walking into a space I didn’t know existed for me. He wasn’t just attentive; he was present, kind, and completely without ego. Through our conversations about control, boundaries, and self-acceptance, I’ve begun to rediscover my femininity, my confidence, and most importantly, my right to feel good in my own skin.”
Another told us:
“Stepping into this experience was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Reaching out to Anna wasn’t easy. But from the moment we spoke, I felt warmth, support, and encouragement. She reminded me: baby steps. And that’s what set me free.”
This is the real power of companionship. It’s not a replacement for therapy. It’s the embodiment of it.
Healing has never belonged to the mind alone. You can analyse, talk, and reason your way through the past, but the body is where it lingers. It’s the body that holds the tremor of grief, the clench of shame, the quiet freeze of neglect. And it’s the body that softens again through presence, through touch, through connection.
That is the heartbeat of Her Confidant: the belief that pleasure is not indulgence, but self-care. That pleasure is not frivolous, but medicine. That when a woman is met in her sensuality, she is not only touched, but healed.
Yet, in these eighteen months since Her Confidant began, we’ve witnessed something deeper. Sometimes, intimacy alone is not enough. For many women, their encounters with our companions are so profound, so stirring, that they awaken memories, longings, or fears that have been hidden for years. Suddenly, the body remembers what the mind has tried to forget.
And when that happens, the experience becomes more than a date. It becomes a threshold. A place where preparation matters as much as the moment itself, and where integration is essential to carry the shift forward.
Some women need more than a safe, sensual encounter. They need a hand to steady them before they step in. They need a space to name their fears, to set their intentions, to breathe through the trembling. And afterwards, they need someone who can help them make sense of it all, the joy, the grief, the relief of finally feeling again.
That kind of work belongs to the steady guidance of a professional.
Because before we can open to another, we often must return to ourselves. We must knock on the door of our own body and whisper, I am ready to come home.
That is why The Reawakening was created.
The name wasn’t chosen lightly.
We’ve watched women walk in with years of grief, numbness, or doubt — and walk out with light in their eyes, softness in their bodies, and fire in their laughter. It isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about reawakening to what was always there.
“I claimed what had always been mine: my birthright to experience physical pleasure on my terms. I feared intimacy would break me. Instead, it set me free.”
The testimonial we get the most usually says:
“I feel like myself again.”
The Reawakening is about that moment. The soft return. The knowing smile. The realisation: I was never broken. I was just on a journey to feel alive and worthy again.
The Reawakening is for every woman who has ever whispered, maybe I’m just not enough. Maybe it’s just too late for me.
It is for:
The divorcee rediscovering who she is outside a marriage.
The widow learning to trust touch again after grief.
The high-achiever who can run empires but feels disconnected from her body.
The woman whose trauma stole her sense of safety.
The curious woman who has never explored intimacy and wants her first time to feel sacred, not shameful.
- Anyone who needs a little push to reconnect with their erotic selves.
One client who had waited until her late 30s to experience intimacy shared:
“I am a 36-year-old woman who had never dated, never shared a physical connection. I had locked that part of myself away out of fear of rejection. But my night with James cracked the wall I had built around myself for 18 years. It was enlightening, potentially life-changing.”
This is who The Reawakening is for: women who are ready to return to themselves.
Because we are not an escort agency. We are a sanctuary.
At Her Confidant, safety, emotional intelligence, and discretion are non-negotiable. Anna’s mission has always been clear: pleasure is power, intimacy is self-care, and women do not need permission to want more.
Our companions are not just attractive men. They are handpicked for their ability to listen, respect, and truly see women. Every man goes through a rigorous process, including interviews, checks, and even trial experiences, to ensure he is emotionally intelligent, present, and capable of holding space.
And women feel the difference.
“Anna’s kindness and professionalism set the tone for a wonderful experience. From the moment we spoke, I felt safe, respected, and supported.”
“Anna reminded me I deserved this. That I wasn’t too much. And she made it easier to say yes to myself.”
This is why Her Confidant exists. To give women a space where they are not judged, not rushed, not silenced; but met, fully, exactly where they are.
The Reawakening is more than a companion experience. It is a collaboration.
We are proud to work with Laura Lee, Courtenay DuBois, and an expanding circle of trauma-informed, sex-positive, emotionally intelligent professionals. These are women whose life’s work is helping clients reclaim intimacy, process trauma, and step into embodied pleasure.
Together, we’ve created a three-part journey:
- A Welcome Call with Anna
A short private call to ensure fit, answer questions, and set the tone of care. Anna helps you clarify intentions, discuss preferences and boundaries, and decide which practitioner and companion feels right for your journey. This is a gentle, no-pressure space to feel heard and supported before you commit to anything. Safe Grounding & Intention Setting
A 60 minute session with a sexologist or coach to explore emotional blocks, align expectations, and prepare your nervous system for intimacy. You will leave with a personalised focus for your companion experience and clear, consent-led boundaries.The Companion Experience
One hour of social connection plus two hours of intimacy with a Her Confidant Companion, selected with care for emotional and physical alignment. The focus is presence, safety, and genuine desire, guided entirely by your pace and preferences.Integration Session
A 60 minute post-experience session with your practitioner to reflect, process somatically, and anchor what shifted. This is where insights become embodied, and confidence begins to feel natural again in daily life.- Take-Home Practice
You receive a simple set of practices to continue at your own pace, chosen to suit your nervous system and goals.
This model bridges two worlds that rarely meet: therapeutic support and embodied intimacy. Therapy heals the mind. Companionship reawakens the body. Together, they complete the circle.
“Safety wrapped itself around me. I was seen, desired, awakened. The missing piece of my journey. I had feared intimacy could undo all my healing. Instead, it gave me back to myself.”
That is the power of collaboration.
Her Confidant exists because of the courage of the women who step through our doors. Their stories are the real proof.
“I was terrified of intimacy after a divorce. But Hudson made me feel safe the moment he walked in. I remembered what it felt like to be desired. It was healing in ways I can’t describe.”
“For years, I believed I had to shrink myself. With Jack, I realised I didn’t. I began to rediscover my femininity and my right to feel good in my own skin.”
“Overcoming my fear and calling Anna was one of the best things I’ve ever done. Andre created a space where I felt safe enough to experience full-body pleasure for the first time in my life. I only regret not doing it sooner.”
“I thought intimacy could break me. Instead, it set me free.”
Each voice adds to the chorus of what The Reawakening means: women remembering who they are.
You can read many more testimonials here.
f you are reading this and wondering if it’s too late, if you’re too much, or if you’ll ever feel alive again, this is your invitation. This is your permission.
The Reawakening is a soft landing, a safe space, and a sacred reminder that you’re not broken, you’re coming home to yourself.
It is time.
Her Confidant is Australia’s premier elite escort agency for women in Melbourne, Sydney, Brisbane, Perth and Adelaide, founded by Anna Grosman. Anna is a powerhouse: a wife, mum, carer, and lover of all things sex. Her nurturing nature and commitment to helping others led her to create an agency grounded in compassion, empathy, and strong work ethics.
If you have any further questions, you can always read through our FAQ or get in touch for a confidential chat on 0449 918 907.