Hi, I’m Alistair, but you can call me Ali if you’d prefer.

Life, for me, is all about connection, shared experience & collecting memories. Being in the moment, with your blinkers on & a seemingly blurry background, being totally present with who & where & what you’re doing – whether it’s dancing the night away to your favourite dj with your best mates, seeing something amazing for the first time, or sipping wine with a fascinating new friend – there’s magic in every moment if you know how to look for it.

I’ve been in long term relationships that both have & haven’t worked, but have always taught me a lot about myself & a lot about life. I’ve spent years in therapy in an attempt to better understand myself, what makes me tick & to learn how to share more of myself. And I’ve spent years learning about my own sexuality & my own desires & and I absolutely love the idea of helping others to do the same.

I’m naturally curious, I read people well and I’m entirely comfortable talking about desires, boundaries & what actually excites you. That excitement, I promise you, will excite me too.

I am very much pro-experience, and I love the idea of creating & collecting memories – I believe the magic is very much in the moment, even more so when that moment is shared.

Those who know me would say I’m calm, consistent & grounded & I hope they’d agree that I have a great sense of humour.

I’ve always been attracted to people who dare to be different, dare to think for themselves, dare to go down the road less travelled, and I’m very much looking forward to hearing all about you & what makes you feel free, yet compelled, to explore. Meeting somebody just like you is what really does it for me.

No matter how long we have together, you’ll feel safe, comfortable, excited, desired & as if you have permission to be whoever you’d like, entirely free from judgement, while you’re with me.

I’m already thinking about it.

Alistair x