The Reawakening

A journey back to self
The Reawakening is a guided experience for women who want to feel at home in their bodies again. A session with a qualified intimacy expert before and after unhurried, consent-led time with a Companion gives you a structured space to explore sensation and pleasure at your own pace.

WHO

This experience often resonates with women who have done significant inner work, yet still feel a quiet disconnect in their bodies.

You may recognise yourself if you:
  • Have done therapy or inner work around past experiences, and feel ready for a next step
  • Understand your patterns, but struggle to feel pleasure or softness
  • Feel capable and grounded in life, yet distant in intimacy
  • Long to feel safe inside your body again, not just understand it
  • Are curious about intimacy as part of reconnecting with yourself
  • Understand that this is a process, not a quick fix
You just need to be ready to listen to what your body has been holding.

WHY

For many women, shame, neglect or long seasons of silence show up in the body as well as the mind.

You can know you’re safe. And still not feel safe.

Reconnection can begin in the body. Sometimes through movement. Sometimes through breath. Sometimes through touch.

Being held with care and touched at your own pace can feel deeply calming, and many women find it helps them trust their body’s signals again.

Intentional intimacy can be a meaningful part of coming home to yourself. That is the heart of The Reawakening.

WHAT

The Reawakening brings together therapeutic support and intentional companionship in one structured experience. Designed for women who feel disconnected from their bodies or intimacy, it offers a grounded return to pleasure, safety and self.

Welcome Call

A private call with Anna to clarify intentions and ensure the perfect match of companion and practitioner.

The Groundwork

A 60-minute session with a sexologist or intimacy expert to talk through your intentions, practise grounding tools and set clear boundaries.

The Reawakening

90 minutes of social connection + two and a half hours of intimacy with a Her Confidant Companion, chosen with care for your needs.

Follow Up

A gentle post-booking catch-up with Anna to check in, ensure you felt safe and supported, and to guide any next steps in your journey.

The Integration

A 60-minute post-experience session with your practitioner to reflect, process and embody your shifts.

The Homework

Curated resources, like audios, journal prompts or somatic exercises, to continue your journey in your own time.

Dive Deeper

Her Confidant offers 10% off a follow-up two-hour intimacy session. Each practitioner also provides exclusive offers for their individual programs, should you wish to go deeper. Click on each practitioner to discover more.

Investment:

$3,500
6 hours | 1 Companion + your intimacy expert | 90 minutes social connection + 2.5 hours intimacy, with preparation and integration sessions
Accommodation, dining and other personal arrangements are additional. Any applicable travel costs or surcharges will be confirmed before your booking.

Extra hours: $850 p/hr
I had found self-love, but I had lost desire. I understood my mind, but felt paralysed in my body. I longed to awaken.

Through The Reawakening, I discovered a part of myself I hadn’t met before. She had been buried in silence and shame, yet she is passionate, alive and deeply worthy of receiving.

I’m grateful for the authenticity of my Companion, for the pleasure and for being truly seen. And grateful to Anna for creating a safe space where this part of me could finally come home.
D, after The Reawakening.

INTIMACY EXPERTS

We collaborate with qualified Australian intimacy experts so The Reawakening is carefully structured, trauma-informed and responsibly held at every stage.
Laura Lee, psychologist and sexologist

Book The Reawakening with Laura and receive 35% off all Unbound 12-month subscriptions.

Laura Lee

Sexologist & Psychologist
Melbourne-based psychologist and sexologist with 17 years’ experience guiding women back to connection. Trauma-informed and clinically trained, she blends depth with warmth, helping women reclaim desire, reduce shame and rediscover intimacy as healing.
Isiah McKimmie, couples therapist and sexologist

Book The Reawakening with Isiah and receive 20% off all online products and programs.

Isiah McKimmie

Couples Therapist & Sexologist
One of Australia’s leading sexologists and relationship therapists, with 15+ years of clinical experience. Trauma-informed and evidence-based, she helps women rebuild confidence, desire, and emotional wellbeing through psychotherapy, somatic practice and relational depth.
Courtenay DuBois, sensual strategist

Book The Reawakening with Courtenay and receive 10% off any bespoke 1:1 Personal Breakthrough Program at Silver, Gold, or Platinum level.

Courtenay DuBois

Intimacy Strategist
Gold Coast based sex and relationship expert and creator of Sensual Permission. Using NLP, Time Line Therapy® and hypnotherapy, she helps high-achieving women release shame, heal disconnection, and reclaim clarity, sensuality and authentic intimacy.
Natalie West, psychotherapist and self-image specialist

Book The Reawakening with Natalie and receive 10% off all online products and programs.

Natalie West

Psychotherapist & Self-Image Specialist
Metabolic Integrative Psychotherapist with 20+ years’ experience supporting women who feel disconnected from their bodies or desire. Blending somatic therapy and nervous system regulation, she helps restore safety, self-trust and embodied intimacy.
It has been deeply rewarding to support women as they enter their experience with their companion equipped with tools to manage anxiety with confidence and clarity of purpose. Helping them articulate their desires, sometimes for the first time, is powerful to witness.
Laura Lee

From Here

Intentional intimacy is the ultimate form of self-care. Every woman deserves to experience it at least once in her life.
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Frequently Asked Questions

Every Her Confidant Companion completes Phoenix Australia’s trauma-informed care course, paid for by Her Confidant, after his first three successful bookings.

Companions are not therapists, and they do not provide clinical treatment. They are selected to create emotional safety, attuned presence and paced intimacy.

Preparation and integration are supported by qualified practitioners to ensure the experience remains structured and psychologically responsible.

Sex surrogacy is a therapeutic modality designed to treat specific sexual difficulties, with a surrogate who works strictly under the supervision of a therapist. It often focuses on skills practice and clinical outcomes.

The Reawakening, on the other hand, is not clinical or diagnostic, and is not about treating a disorder or dysfunction. It is a guided, holistic and embodied experience centred on pleasure and agency.

No. The Reawakening is not a substitute for therapy, medical care, or psychological treatment. It is designed as a supportive, embodied complement to personal growth and professional care.

If you are currently in acute trauma, crisis, or experiencing severe mental health challenges, we encourage you to work with a qualified health professional first.

You are likely ready if:

• You are stable in your daily life
• You are not in acute crisis
• You feel curiosity alongside fear
• You want to feel, not to escape

If you are unsure, that is exactly why the welcome call with Anna exists. You can also take our Experience Quiz as a gentle beginning, or read our guide to how to feel safe in intimacy.

It can be, depending on where you are in your healing. The Reawakening was designed with nervous-system awareness and trauma sensitivity at its core. Preparation and integration are included precisely because safety must come first.

However, it is not crisis intervention. If trauma feels raw, destabilising, or unresolved, further therapeutic support may be needed before stepping into intimacy. Anna talks readiness through with you on your welcome call, and your practitioner will too.

Freezing is a common response, and nothing to be ashamed of. Part of the preparation process is identifying your nervous-system patterns and discussing what support looks like if overwhelm arises. You may pause, slow down, redirect, or stop at any time.

Your Companion is selected for attunement. The pace is always yours.

Shame can surface when we cross old internal boundaries, even if the experience was consensual and aligned. That is why integration is built into the experience. You are not left alone to process what arises.

Attachment is a natural human response to safety and attuned touch.

Companions keep clear, respectful boundaries. The experience is held within a contained framework. Integration support also helps contextualise emotional responses.

The Reawakening is $3,500. It includes a welcome call with Anna, a 60-minute preparation session with a sexologist or intimacy expert, 90 minutes of social connection and two and a half hours of intimacy with a Companion, a follow-up with Anna, a 60-minute integration session with your practitioner, and resources to continue in your own time. You can compare every experience and price on our Experiences page.

Our Companions are based in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, the Gold Coast and Perth, and can travel to other cities with a little notice. What each experience includes can vary by state, so Anna will confirm the options for your city when you enquire. Our guide to male escort laws in Australia explains the differences.

Plans can change, and we understand. What you pay depends on how much notice you give. See our Booking Policy for the full terms.

Begin where you are.
Any question is welcome.

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Laura Lee
Sexologist & Psychologist
Laura is a psychologist and sexologist based in Melbourne, with over 17 years of experience guiding people back to themselves. As Director of Blue Space Psychology, she works at the crossroads of sex, relationships, and mental health, blending clinical depth with a warm, human touch.

Accredited and trauma-informed, Laura supports women, couples, and even other health professionals through therapy, workshops, and online education. With a postgraduate qualification in sexology, she is fiercely passionate about dismantling shame and creating spaces where people can embrace their desires and explore sensuality as a source of healing and freedom.
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