A male escort for women in Australia costs from $1,000 for two hours of social companionship at Her Confidant, and $1,950 for the Her Confidant Experience, our signature three-hour booking. Longer bookings range up to $10,000 for a 38-hour weekend. Every rate includes your Companion’s time, Anna’s personal oversight and travel within 15 km of the CBD.
Last updated: October 2026
Prices vary across agencies and independent companions, and very few publish them. So here is exactly what we charge, what is included, and what you are really paying for.
These are Her Confidant’s rates as at October 2026. The Experiences page always shows current pricing.
| Experience | Time | Price | Extra hour | What it includes |
| The Prelude | 2 hours | $1,000 | $500 | Social companionship only |
| Erotic Tantric Massage | 2 hours | $1,200 | $600 | Tantric massage only |
| The Indulgence | 90 minutes | $1,700 | $850 | Intimacy |
| Her Confidant Experience | 3 hours | $1,950 | $850 | 1 hour social, 2 hours intimacy |
| Her Confidant + | 4 hours | $2,500 | $850 | 1 hour social, 3 hours intimacy |
| The Goddess | 4 hours | $3,000 | $850 | 1 hour boudoir photography, then 1 hour social and 2 hours intimacy |
| The Reawakening | 6 hours | $3,500 | $850 | Two 1-hour sessions with an intimacy expert, 1.5 hours social, 2.5 hours intimacy, aftercare |
| The Sleepover | 14 hours, 7pm to 9am | $5,500 | $850 | Dinner, intimacy, waking together |
| The Weekender | 38 hours, Friday 7pm to Sunday 9am | $10,000 | $850 | Social connection and intimacy across a full weekend |
| 3SOME | 3 hours | $2,800 | $1,200 | Two Companions, 1 hour social, 2 hours intimacy |
| 3SOME + | 4 hours | $3,500 | $1,200 | Two Companions, 1 hour social, 3 hours intimacy |
| Couples | 3 hours | $3,500 | $1,200 | One Companion for a couple, 1 hour social, 2 hours intimacy |
On the overnight experiences, your Companion needs a minimum of seven hours’ sleep. On The Weekender, he also needs one hour of personal time each day.
We price by experience rather than by the hour, because a booking has a shape. Conversation first. Then, if you want it, intimacy as the chemistry builds.
If you prefer to think in hourly terms:
Across the wider market, independent companions set their own rates, and many advertise by the hour. Published figures vary enormously and are rarely verified. We would rather show you our real prices than quote an “average” nobody can check.
Included in every booking:
Organised and paid for by you:
Possible surcharges:
Any travel cost or surcharge is confirmed with you before you book. There are no hidden fees.
You book your PT.
Your facialist.
Your therapist.
Your gyno check.
Each of those prices reflects training, screening and time you never see. Companionship works the same way.
The selection. We receive more than 50 applications a month, and most are declined. Every Companion goes through:
The training. After his first three successful bookings, each Companion completes Phoenix Australia’s trauma-informed care course, paid for by Her Confidant. Anna has completed the same course. He learns to read your body language, slow down when you need it and lead only when invited.
The care around the booking.
You are paying for a booking where your nervous system comes first.
The time beyond the clock. Your Companion prepares for you, travels to you and keeps the date free for you. He arrives present, with nowhere else to be.
Our rates are the same in Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane and the Gold Coast. New South Wales, Victoria and Queensland have all decriminalised sex work:
Western Australia, South Australia, Tasmania and the ACT each have their own laws. If you are in Perth, Adelaide, Hobart or Canberra, Anna will talk you through what is possible in your city before anything is arranged.
The law is stricter in those places:
Our state-by-state guide to male escort laws in Australia explains the detail.
Booking ahead. Book at least 48 hours ahead so your preferred Companion is free.
Payment. Once you and Anna have chosen your Companion and experience, you pay upfront by bank transfer. Your booking is secured once the payment is confirmed.
Cancellation:
| When you cancel | Refund |
| 48 hours or more before | Full refund |
| Between 48 and 24 hours before | 50% refund |
| Within 24 hours | Charged in full, as your Companion has reserved that time for you |
If the chemistry isn’t there. Sometimes you meet and it simply isn’t right. If you choose not to continue at the very start of a booking, one hour of companionship is charged and the rest is refunded.
Extending on the night. Message Anna during your date and she will arrange the extra time and payment.
If you are ready for intimacy, the Her Confidant Experience was designed with first-timers in mind. You start with an hour of easy conversation and move towards intimacy only as it feels right. Many women choose Her Confidant +, the four-hour version, so nothing feels rushed. It is the closest thing we offer to a boyfriend experience.
If touch is what you have been missing, the Erotic Tantric Massage is slow and deliberate. It is a gentle way back into your body.
If intimacy feels like too much right now, The Prelude is two hours of attentive conversation over dinner, at an exhibition or at an event. In our experience, though, the Her Confidant Experience is usually the better first step, because nothing happens unless you want it to.
Still unsure? Our guide to booking a male escort for the first time walks you through every step.
Price alone tells you little. How a service handles money tells you a lot.
Be cautious if:
A reputable agency is happy to explain every dollar. Our guide on how to stay safe when booking a male escort covers the other signs to look for.
When you are ready, start with a conversation. Send Anna a confidential enquiry and ask anything at all. There is no obligation to book.
In New South Wales, Victoria, Queensland and the Northern Territory, yes. The ACT uses a registration model. Western Australia and South Australia restrict agencies and brothels. In Tasmania, receiving sexual services from a commercial business is an offence. Everyone involved must be over 18, and wherever you live, Anna will talk you through what is possible in your city before anything is arranged.
Yes. Your fee covers your Companion’s time, Anna’s oversight and travel within 15 km of the CBD. Accommodation, dining, tickets and any longer-distance travel are arranged and paid for by you. Anna is happy to suggest venues.
Yes. The Prelude is two hours of social companionship for $1,000, with no expectation of intimacy. Most women still find the Her Confidant Experience the better first booking, because it begins with conversation and nothing moves further unless you want it to.
If you decide not to continue at the very start of your booking, one hour of companionship is charged and the remainder is refunded. You are never obliged to continue.
Yes. Public holiday bookings carry a 15% surcharge, and travel beyond 15 km of the CBD may attract a fee. Anna confirms any extra costs with you before you book.
At least 48 hours, so your preferred Companion is available. Every Companion is booked in advance, so a little planning goes a long way.
