You deserve to explore your deepest desires in a safe, consensual and delicious playground.
—Anna Grosman, Founder

Her Confidant Experiences

A journey back to your sensual truth.

Whether you seek elegant romance, unapologetic pleasure or a powerful reconnection with yourself, each experience is thoughtfully designed to meet you exactly where you are.

Explore the experiences

Erotic Tantric Massage

A full awakening of the senses, a deep, cathartic release and a moment to surrender completely to pleasure.
Best for: First-timers, slow-burn, release
Duration: 2hrs
Inclusions: Tantric massage only
Investment: $1,200
With slow, deliberate touch, we’ll guide you into pure relaxation, melting away tension and allowing you to reconnect with your body in a way you never have before. It’s a space to let go, to be fully present and to embrace touch in its most sensual, intentional form.

Every woman should experience this at least once.
Full inclusions: 2hrs massage only.
Additional time: $600 /hr

The Indulgence

An intimate escape into raw connection and exquisite pleasure.
Best for: Experienced, kink, busy
Duration: 90 minutes
Inclusions: Pure intimacy
Investment: $1,700
Step straight into the heat. A 90-minute immersion in deliberate touch and embodied desire. For women who know exactly what they want and are ready to claim it.
Full inclusions: 90 minutes of intimacy.
Additional time: $850 /hr

The Sleepover

Great intimacy deserves time. An unhurried descent into deep connection.
Best for: Deep-divers, explorers, cuddlers, slow-burn
Duration: 14hrs | 7pm to 9am
Inclusions: Social connection, intimacy
Investment: $5,500
The Sleepover allows chemistry to unfold naturally. Shared dinner, lingering intimacy, and waking slowly as the night becomes a treasured memory.
Full inclusions: 14hrs of social connection and intimacy. Companions require a minimum of 7hrs sleep.
Additional time: $850 /hr

The Reawakening →

A guided experience of therapy, intimacy & integration to restore connection to your body, your pleasure & your self.
Best for: Deep-divers, healing, PTSD
Duration: 6hrs
Inclusions: Professional support, trauma-certified companionship
Investment: $3,500
Guided by leading intimacy experts and certified trauma-informed companions, The Reawakening blends therapeutic support, nervous-system safety and immersive intimacy tailored to your needs.

This experience invites you to settle into your body, trust your sensations and rediscover pleasure at your pace.
Full inclusions: 2 x 1hr sessions with an intimacy expert, 1.5hrs of social connection + 2.5hrs of intimacy with a companion, guidance, aftercare.
Additional time: $850 /hr

The Goddess →

A celebration of you. Step into your most confident, sexy and unapologetic self.
Best for: Empowerment, healing, fantasy
Duration: 4hrs
Inclusions: Boudoir photography session, printed art, companionship
Investment: $3,000
Begin with a private boudoir session, then let intentional intimacy with a companion expand your confidence and feminine power.

The Goddess Experience invites you to surrender into sensation, trust your body and awaken a richer, more radiant version of yourself.
Full inclusions: 1hr boudoir photography + 3hrs companionship (1hr of social connection + 2hrs of intimacy).
Additional time: $850 /hr

Couples

For couples ready to explore desire and expand their intimacy while honouring their bond.
Best for: Couples, curious, fantasy-driven
Duration: 3hrs
Inclusions: Social connection, intimacy | One companion
Investment: $3,500
An intentional experience for couples ready to deepen trust and spark new chemistry. A slow, deliberate unfolding into shared pleasure, guided by attunement, boundaries and emotional safety.
Full inclusions: One companion, 1hr of social connection, 2hrs intimacy.
Additional time: $1,200 /hr

The Prelude

An evening of grounded, attentive presence. Connection without pressure.
Best for: First-timers, companionship, events
Duration: 2hrs
Inclusions: Social connection only
Investment: $1,000
Dinner, a gallery opening, a work event, or quiet conversation somewhere intimate.

There is no agenda. No escalation. Just the pleasure of being seen, chosen and accompanied by a man who knows how to hold space.
Full inclusions: 2hrs of social connection only.
Additional time: $500 /hr

The Weekender

Step away from the world and into something slower. A sensual journey crafted to fulfil your deepest desires.
Best for: Deep-divers, explorers, slow-burn
Duration: 38hrs | Fri 7pm to Sun 9am
Inclusions: Social connection, intimacy
Investment: $8,000
The Weekender is a complete immersion into companionship, where there is no clock to race and no need to compress pleasure into a few hours. Shared dinners, unhurried mornings, spontaneous adventures, deep conversation and lingering intimacy.
Full inclusions: 38hrs of social connection and intimacy. Companions require 1 hour of personal time and a minimum of 7 hours sleep per day.
Additional time: $850 /hr

Explore the
experiences

Erotic Tantric Massage

A full awakening of the senses, a deep, cathartic release and a moment to surrender completely to pleasure.
Best for: First-timers, slow-burn, release
Duration: 2hrs
Inclusions: Tantric massage only
Investment: $1,200

The Indulgence

An intimate escape into raw connection and exquisite pleasure.
Best for: Experienced, kink, busy
Duration: 90 minutes
Inclusions: Pure intimacy
Investment: $1,700

The Sleepover

Great intimacy deserves time. An unhurried descent into deep connection.
Best for: Deep-divers, explorers, cuddlers, slow-burn
Duration: 14hrs | 7pm to 9am
Inclusions: Social connection, intimacy
Investment: $5,500

The Reawakening →

A guided experience of therapy, intimacy & integration to restore connection to your body, your pleasure & your self.
Best for: Deep-divers, healing, PTSD
Duration: 6hrs
Inclusions: Professional support, trauma-certified companionship
Investment: $3,500

The Goddess →

A celebration of you. Step into your most confident, sexy and unapologetic self.
Best for: Empowerment, healing, fantasy
Duration: 4hrs
Inclusions: Boudoir photography session, printed art, companionship
Investment: $3,000

Couples

For couples ready to explore desire and expand their intimacy while honouring their bond.
Best for: Couples, curious, kink
Duration: 3hrs
Inclusions: Social connection, intimacy | One companion
Investment: $3,500

The Prelude

An evening of grounded, attentive presence. Connection without pressure.
Best for: First-timers, companionship, events
Duration: 2hrs
Inclusions: Social connection only
Investment: $1,000

The Weekender

Step away from the world and into something slower. A sensual journey crafted to fulfil your deepest desires.
Best for: Deep-divers, explorers, slow-burn
Duration: 38hrs | Fri 7pm to Sun 9am
Inclusions: Social connection, intimacy
Investment: $8,000

Her Confidant is an intentional decision to honour your pleasure and wellbeing.
Not sure where to begin?

What Makes Us Different

We are Australia’s leading escort agency for women seeking emotionally intelligent male companionship.
Intimacy as Self-Care
Presence and emotional intelligence elevate intimacy into a restorative experience. We view pleasure as a pillar of your overall wellbeing.
Your Nervous System Comes First
Safety precedes desire. You set the pace. You’re always in charge.
By Women, For Women
Her Confidant is led by women, for women. All processes are shaped through lived female experience.
Trauma-Informed Practice
We are a certified trauma-informed organisation. Every companion is formally trained to prioritise emotional regulation, consent and felt safety.
Her Confidant Standard
Every companion undergoes a multi-stage psychological assessment, health and background checks and a simulated booking before joining our agency.
Integrity & Respect
You are never a number. Our companions are never commodities. Discretion, professionalism and care are non-negotiable.

How It Works

1. Reach Out

Enquire privately via our website or email.

2. Welcome Call

Anna connects with you to understand where you are and what you’re curious about.

3. Thoughtful Matching

Anna suggests a Companion and experience aligned with your needs.

4. Choose Your Experience

You decide what feels right. Short or long. Gentle or passionate. There is no pressure. You lead.

5. Confirm the Details

Availability is confirmed, payment is arranged and your booking is secured.

6. Booking Guidelines

You receive a clear outline of boundaries and expectations, so everyone feels comfortable and secure.

7. Prepare The Logistics

You choose and secure your location, often a hotel or Airbnb.

8. Gentle Check-In

Before your booking, Anna checks in via text message to ensure everything is ok.

9. The Experience

Meet your Companion in the agreed place. Conversation flows. When it feels right, you move into a more intimate space.

10. Aftercare

Anna checks in via text message on the following day, to ensure you felt safe and satisfied.

11. Companion Debrief

Anna also connects with your companion to ensure everything unfolded as intended.

12. Your Love Letters

Some women choose to share anonymous reflections, a way to integrate their experience and support others who are finding their way.
I discovered a new level of sexuality, confidence, and capacity I hadn’t realised I possessed.
It was raw, vulnerable and honest, and this is where the transformation begins.
This felt like the safest, most confidence-building start to my intimacy journey.
Hour after hour of the most sensual experience I’ve ever had, orgasm after orgasm, until I was disorientated in bed.
I sincerely hope any woman reading this who may be thinking about utilising Her Confidant realises that it is absolutely a legit and safe self-care service.

Frequently Asked Questions

Your booking includes your companion’s dedicated time, presence and full attention. Travel within 15km of the CBD is included. Any accommodation, dining, entertainment, or extended travel arrangements are organised at your discretion.

Experiences take place in discreet, privately arranged settings; most commonly hotels or Airbnb’s, depending on what feels most comfortable for you.

Transparency is central to how our companionship agency operates. There are no hidden fees. Travel within 15km of the CBD is included. Travel beyond this radius may incur an additional fee. Interstate or international travel is arranged at additional cost. Public holiday bookings attract a 15% surcharge. Accommodation, dining, tickets and any additional activities are organised and covered by the client.

We uphold fairness for both clients and companions. You are never obligated to continue beyond what feels right. However, once a booking starts, the companion has committed their time. If a client chooses not to proceed at the very start of a session due to a lack of chemistry or personal preference, a fee equivalent to one (1) hour of companionship will apply, with the remainder refunded.

We understand that plans can change.
Cancellations made 48 hours or more before your booking receive a full refund.
Cancellations between 48 and 24 hours receive a 50% refund.
Cancellations within 24 hours are charged in full, as your companion has reserved this time exclusively for you and preparation has already taken place.

That’s ok. Many women feel nervous the first time they reach out, but we are working to break the stigma of male escorts. You are not expected to perform or arrive with certainty. Curiosity is enough. Our companions are selected for their emotional intelligence, presence and interpersonal awareness. Together with Anna, they create a space where you feel supported, guided and at ease from the very beginning. More often than not, women leave wondering why they waited so long.

Then that is exactly where we begin. We created The Prelude as a gentle entry point for those who simply want attentive, emotionally intelligent companionship without further expectations. Intimacy doesn’t have to escalate to be meaningful. You set the pace. You decide what feels safe in your body. And often, when a woman finally allows herself to let go, she realises she’s only just begun.

From our clients, we ask for clear communication, respectful conduct, personal hygiene and presence. Politeness, warmth, and consideration set the tone for a beautiful experience.

Consent, respect, and safety guide every interaction. Safe sex is mandatory. Drugs are not permitted and excessive alcohol may result in the booking ending early. Requests are welcome, but not demanded.

Your comfort matters. If anything feels off, the experience can be gently redirected or concluded with care and professionalism.

As a high-class companionship agency for women, discretion and confidentiality are foundational to everything we do.

From Our Blog

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9 Fun Things to Do in Melbourne for Women Who Know Luxury

Most Melbourne travel guides read like a school excursion. Trams, footy, dumplings, repeat. Grand if you’ve never been, but if you’re a grown woman with taste and a bit of disposable income, you’d be forgiven for asking where the actual fun is hiding…Here’s a curated list of fun things to do in Melbourne for women who travel well, eat well, fuck well, and aren’t fussed about pretending otherwise.

Why Ladies First Rattled Men (and what Her Confidant is doing differently)

Netflix’s Ladies First is clumsy, sometimes cringe, and accidentally reveals something profound about gender, power, and what women actually experience. When you stack every small dismissal, every unwanted touch, every interruption into one day on one body, it stops looking like comedy. It looks like a documentary. Critics called it exaggerated. But are we really overreacting, or have we just never seen it all in one frame before?

Begin where you are.
Any question is welcome.

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Her Confidant is a sanctuary for women who choose themselves. A high-class escort agency, specialised in elite male escorts for women. We offer discreet, intentional experiences shaped by safety, emotional intelligence and unwavering respect. Intimacy, designed entirely around you.


At Her Confidant, we acknowledge the Traditional Owners of the land on which we operate.
We honour Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures and pay our respects to Elders past, present, and emerging.

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Laura Lee

Sexologist & Psychologist
Laura is a psychologist and sexologist based in Melbourne, with over 17 years of experience guiding people back to themselves. As Director of Blue Space Psychology, she works at the crossroads of sex, relationships, and mental health, blending clinical depth with a warm, human touch.

Accredited and trauma-informed, Laura supports women, couples, and even other health professionals through therapy, workshops, and online education. With a postgraduate qualification in sexology, she is fiercely passionate about dismantling shame and creating spaces where people can embrace their desires and explore sensuality as a source of healing and freedom.
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